Have a "girls night at home" with her, you know, couple of movies, drinks, etc. before you get "too drunk" (say after 3-4 drinks) just casually mention that "some girl from work (whatever)" has been ogling you, and a couple of times has brushed against you a little too hard while squeezing past you in the break room, and you actually find it a bit of a turn on. That should be enough to get the conversation going without admitting you're bi for her badger.
I know, I know, but sometimes it's hard to find a new way to say "just be honest, be yourself, and good things will come your way".
How about "That should be enough to get the conversation going without admitting that you are sexually stimulated by her - even though such arousal is totally healthy and normal and nothing to be ashamed of."
Anything is an improvement on the "here drink this...funny thing happened at work today" approach. "Dear Penthouse, I never thought these letters were true until yesterday in the break room at work..." Lol
ROFL - Well, it would be nice if we were all comfortable enough with ourselves to just open up with "Hey, over the last few months you've been turning me on" to their best friend.
Sadly, as most people are lacking in confidence and fearful of rejection, a couple of stiff drinks and an approach that allows it to be easily laughed off as a joke will probably be seen as "better" than a less deceptive one.
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Have a "girls night at home" with her, you know, couple of movies, drinks, etc. before you get "too drunk" (say after 3-4 drinks) just casually mention that "some girl from work (whatever)" has been ogling you, and a couple of times has brushed against you a little too hard while squeezing past you in the break room, and you actually find it a bit of a turn on. That should be enough to get the conversation going without admitting you're bi for her badger.
Good luck!
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Et tu Brutus? Et tu? I expected SO much more from you. "Bi for her Badger?" Really? She says raising an eyebrow.
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I know, I know, but sometimes it's hard to find a new way to say "just be honest, be yourself, and good things will come your way".
How about "That should be enough to get the conversation going without admitting that you are sexually stimulated by her - even though such arousal is totally healthy and normal and nothing to be ashamed of."
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Anything is an improvement on the "here drink this...funny thing happened at work today" approach. "Dear Penthouse, I never thought these letters were true until yesterday in the break room at work..." Lol
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ROFL - Well, it would be nice if we were all comfortable enough with ourselves to just open up with "Hey, over the last few months you've been turning me on" to their best friend.
Sadly, as most people are lacking in confidence and fearful of rejection, a couple of stiff drinks and an approach that allows it to be easily laughed off as a joke will probably be seen as "better" than a less deceptive one.