Have you tried talking about this with your cousin? Once you tell him what his abuse has done to you I would bet that he would feel really bad about it and apologize which would go a long ways to your recovery.
sorry know you were trying to help, i guess i just cant really wrap it around my head how talkikng to a monster like him would help. seems strange to me. he was never ashamed about what he was doing to me, never was he sweet or apologetic while or after doing it, he was always aggressive, abusive and threatening. he was 14 when he started abusing me and carried on well into his 20s.
he also tried to kill my brother by drowning him when we were children. and i am also not the only one he was raping. he raped his two younger sisters too (they were born after me so he was abusing me first but when they were born i guess that was just more fresh meat for him)
um highly doubt that would be safe, and NO he's not sorry about it. he threatened to kill me and my brother when he was confronted and considering how LONG he did it for well into his adult years, and that he did it in a house full of people (adults at family get togethers) highly doubt he's sorry. he's also related in drug and gang related stuff, so def NOT safe.
is it normal to fantasize about your own abuser/rapist?
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thank you, i will try my best. i cant keep living like this and especially with all this stuff inside me.
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Have you tried talking about this with your cousin? Once you tell him what his abuse has done to you I would bet that he would feel really bad about it and apologize which would go a long ways to your recovery.
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sorry know you were trying to help, i guess i just cant really wrap it around my head how talkikng to a monster like him would help. seems strange to me. he was never ashamed about what he was doing to me, never was he sweet or apologetic while or after doing it, he was always aggressive, abusive and threatening. he was 14 when he started abusing me and carried on well into his 20s.
he also tried to kill my brother by drowning him when we were children. and i am also not the only one he was raping. he raped his two younger sisters too (they were born after me so he was abusing me first but when they were born i guess that was just more fresh meat for him)
um highly doubt that would be safe, and NO he's not sorry about it. he threatened to kill me and my brother when he was confronted and considering how LONG he did it for well into his adult years, and that he did it in a house full of people (adults at family get togethers) highly doubt he's sorry. he's also related in drug and gang related stuff, so def NOT safe.