Is it normal to fantasize about my crush dying

I constantly fantasize about the guy i like dying. I like the feeling of grief that i experience when i imagine him gone forever. Is this normal?

Is It Normal?
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  • Aww, how romantic:').

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  • It's just a fantasy, probably stemmed from watching movies, if you see a character dying, you probably would replace him with your crush, there can be many reasons for this and I'm no psychology major nor do I think psychology can be majored because the brain is to not be explained. I think this is normal, it's just a very intense, romantic fantasy like a movie scene.

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  • This reminds of the animated short Vincent.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fxQcBKUPm8o

    It's seems like fantasizing about tragedy isn't that strange. It's dramatic but I guess there's some entertainment to it and it may be common.

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  • People like feeling things. So if such fantasies make you feel terrible, then yeah. Just bringing more excitement to your life.

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  • It seems like that could cause some anxiety at some point in your life. If you're constantly thinking about people you love dying, you will constantly fear their death.

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  • I'm like that too, but I usually like the feeling of grief from other people when they find out he's dead, or I like to see his agony right before he dies.

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  • Since you're not going to act on killing him, it's normal.

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  • That's not nice.

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  • It's pretty sweet but you may want to be careful how you word it. "I want you dead" doesn't send the right message.

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    • But, dappled, you know I've always wanted you dead, right:')?

      Signed, apprentice in sin>:P.

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      • :O I've misjudged you. You were already evil! I'm slightly scared of you now. *hides behind a door and looks at you through a keyhole*

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        • Mwahaha, this is what you get for saying I have a mackem accent! Oh, the thought! *shudders*

          Also, I don't do the whole apprentice thing. I quit!>:P I may not be able to get through the door, but I'm sure I can find my own little, evil things to fit through the keyhole...>:)

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