Is it normal to fantasize about having sex with someone you hate?

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I've always wondered, every person who i've come across whom i met and later hating them for some reason, i've always fantasized about having sex with them. For an example, my teacher who is a very mean person, young and not that pretty. I have fantasized about her, it's not because of her appearance, but i don't know what it could be that makes me have sexual fantasies about a person who i hate? Domination maybe? In my opinion i find it weird, but i wonder if this is common or not?

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  • KBSH
    11 years ago | pl

    Sometimes the people you hate are the people you most love!

    Or it can just be some fetish. It's okay to have a fetish.

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  • myboyfriendsbitch
    11 years ago

    I have done this at least a couple times. I'd say its not so different from having sex with a partner who you are mad at. Aggression and libido are kind of linked close together. In some people more than others, libido increases with aggression.

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  • JustDave
    11 years ago

    You mean the kind of sex where you imagine yourself pulling her hair, slapping her ass and telling her to "take every aching inch of my man-meat" while she tells you to "Shut up you miserable, filthy bastard and pound me like a nail". The more disgusted you get with yourself, the more turned-on you get & the more turned-on you get, the more disgusted you get with yourself. You can barely fight off the urge to stick your face between her ass cheeks & give her a rim job?

    Yeah, no I've never had such thoughts before.

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    • dirtybirdy
      11 years ago

      You can pretend to hate me if you want to. I know it will be very hard though. I'm just so fuckin lovable. I'm just so lovin fuckable. I'm so fuckin just da.......

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      • JustDave
        11 years ago

        As if there's actually anyone who doesn't love Dirtybirdy.

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  • Metazoa
    11 years ago

    Some people do experience this. It can be due to the constant back and forth lashing at each other, etc that one could want a kind of revenge fuck idea from their experiences. Some people like dominating others, or being dominated, depends on the individual. Others just love rough sex and think the people they don't like would be a good fuck. Or they just think they are attractive and wanna fuck them. Couple ideas out of the vast possible reasons. I have thought some girls that I wasn't in great terms with were hot & I would fuck them if it came to it. Not saying anything else but sex would come of it but you never know about people changing minds and stuff.

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  • muffdiver1
    11 years ago

    I do too! women I hate I think of fucking them so hard so there geting hurt but yur geting aroused! And men I hate I just wana suck them and then then chew on there dicks hard and soft!

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  • OnlyOneForMe
    11 years ago

    I get this too, there's this one girl I've hated for years. A few months ago, I started having some pretty crazy sexual dreams about her.

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