Is it normal to fantasize about children?

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First let me say this, I would never do anything sexually with anyone under 18. Under any circumstanses would I ever take advantage of, or touch children in a bad way. I have two children myself, one son, and one daughter. I would burn the entire fucking earth, if anyone ever did anything to them.

That having been said, I sometimes fantasize about little girls, particularly school girls. For emaple one fantasy I have is being like a 'model' for a sex-ed class where all the girls can come up and touch my penis, practice putting a condom on it, taste it, whatever. Another one is a little school girl coming up and innocently asking if she could see my penis because she had never seen one and was curious. Then she went on to touch it and play with me until I cum.

Again its just a fantasy and I have no desire to do anything like that in actuality. When I masturbate I often think of some VERY perverted and kinky shit, like you wouldn't even believe. Most of these things are nothing I would pursue in reality, but its fun to imagine imo. I don't know, I feel kind of guilty about the little girl thing though, should I get my head examined? I was molested twice as a kid, maybe that has something to do with it? :/ What do you guys think?

Please help me out here, im starting to feel like a sicko, but at the same time I think no harm no foul.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    At least you seem to have a strong idea of where to draw the line between fantasy and reality; so I think you're fine.

    As a woman, I feel disgusted by your fantasy, but I'm sure you're not alone or abnormal because of it.

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    • [Old Memory]
      12 years ago

      I am a pedophile myself. But I am curious, why is it that you women often have such a problem with these things? I always thought it was your maternal instinct and the fact that sex is seen as a predatory kind of thing (which makes no sense, seeing as it's just two people pleasuring one another). But can you think of a reason it bothers you?

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      • michelle69
        11 years ago

        im a woman , & i like pedos

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      • Atussa
        8 years ago

        As long as you don't act on these thoughts, you're not a bad person. For your own sake and for the sake of innocent children whose bodies no one as the right to use for their own pleasure, it would be best to talk to someone professional so you can get to the root of why you feel this and you can move on with your life and be happy.

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  • Mattypotters
    6 years ago

    Understand you completely. Where I live in Vietnam, seeing the owners daughters in thier knickers and the profile of their vaginas.... So yummy.. Sometimes when I'm teaching I get the odd glimpse of a vagina if a little girl is wearing knickers too big. once, a girl was complaining about mosquito bites up her leg. i rubbed this lotion on and on purpose caught her panties and pushed them aside to see her pussy. So nice !!!!

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  • hornytoad123
    7 years ago

    Hey man u gotta stop making ur self feel so bad. For the longest time I would feel so guilty every time I went out that I would see an underage girl and be turned on be them but by the time I was 24 I realized that it was perfectly natural. I mean think about what the fuck is this magical # 18 that supposed to signify when everyone is mature enough to have sex its utterly ridiculous. No its just some arbitrary number that society has generalized to everyone. Bottom line is everyones mental maturity develops at a different rate it all depends on a case by case basis. Personally I wouldn't feel bab if I had sex with a 14 year old as long as she was mature and willing. The age of consent is different around the world and has varied throughout history. The USA don't speak for everyone. Its so fucking ridiculous that u can be arrested for doing nothing More than going out side the way u were fucking born I mean come on. And if we did little girls would be seeing penises all the fuckin time and and it wouldn't be this taboo thing that's sooooo traumaitizing.

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    • [Old Memory]
      5 years ago

      Have fun 🤗

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    YOU HAVE CHANGED MY LIFE!

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  • BUGABOO-666-
    13 years ago

    You're fine. Just let it stay in your head.

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  • theRealDeal
    13 years ago

    Like the above said, I believe you're in the clear. Just know that devious behavior starts with the thought first. Some don't know where to turn it off. Back in the day, while high, my 'body' took me to places I only used go in my mind. Just becareful!

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    • [Old Memory]
      12 years ago

      What's wrong with devious?

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  • iamre321
    6 years ago

    I wanna hear more, comment on my question please. https://www.isitnormal.com/post/is-it-ok-to-be-attracted-to-preteen-girls--254508

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  • Atussa
    8 years ago

    As long as you don't act on these feelings, you're not a bad person but for your own sake and for your relationship with your children, perhaps you should consider talking with a professional to get to the root of why you feel this way so you can move on with your life and be happy.

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  • aussiewolf
    13 years ago

    i have some really kinky thoughts when i masturbate and i would never mention them to anyone and never act on them. that is the whole point of fantasising because it is a fantasy, nothing more. i think its because its different to your everyday sex life with your partner. but your fantasies about school girls are really very common, even i think about things like that i am a girl! if you feel really guilty about it then maybe talk to your doctor but i wouldnt worry.

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  • deepthought33
    13 years ago

    I think you're fine. You've diffidently made your point when it comes to not pursuing some of these fantasies in real life. Our mind is a kind of 'anything goes' place. SOME fantasies aren't even physically possible lol.

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