Is it normal to fantasize about.....

I'm a bartender in LA, and recently one of my regulars started pursuing me. He's crazy hot and it's flattering, but he's married. Even brings her in sometimes, says they have an 'open' marriage. I have never, EVER, been or wanted to be involved with a married man before......
Is it normal to fantasize about sleeping with him and having a crazy affair???

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88% Normal
Based on 321 votes (282 yes)
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Comments ( 32 )
  • grumpybarbie

    Yea, but don't do it

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  • I say go for it. Just don't fall in love or get preg.

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  • Jestah

    You only live once! Just make sure like someone said above that you don't get emotionally attatched and as long as they really do have an 'open' relationship.
    GO GET SOME TIGER! *SLAPS ASS*

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  • nghtstinger

    To see if he lied tell him you want to talk to her about it and if she is cool with it do it.

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  • Don't, it's just not worth it. Too much pain all the way around.

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  • stealinsugars

    It's perfectly normal to fantasize, but leave it at that.

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  • americanhoney

    Do it, ya slore!!

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  • ruralfrights

    Think all you want. Just keep the skirt down

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  • Stormtrooper

    Yes, I wouldn't recommend it but it's normal

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  • Alysin

    Bartenders are told to flirt with the customers because it gets them to buy more drinks and come back
    Just keep in mind that he probably isn't interested in you

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  • Enizzle

    Jesus, sparrowfeed, youre either a nympho or the career woman I see servicing homeless men down on the wharf.

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  • sparrowfeed

    omg do it. that's so hot.

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  • LoveMePlz

    I was the women in the "open" relationship a few years ago. I thought I was fine with it but then realized I wasn't afterwards, I was just trying to make my bf happy. We're actually married now, but I think about and am attracted to women more and more. Only do it if everyone is on board but it could be risky- fantasizing could be easier and more fun!

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  • leggomyears

    Normal fantasy? Yes! Acceptable to do? Hell no! There are plenty of single men willing to "Do You"! Nothing good can ever come from a relationship with a married man no matter what he says! Don't do it! You will be sorry if you do!

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  • Seven

    As many people have already said, MAKE SURE THE MARRIGE IS OPENED! It would suck if he tricks his way into your skirt and you get in trouble for it. If nothing else, talk with the wife, just note that when you do, don't make it seem like you want to Eff him, make it seem like he wants you, so the blame will be on him. Make sure to check if he has any STDs first!

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  • MichaelCollins

    All Fantasies are normal. I would not act on it if I were You but to fantasise about it... Perfectly Normal.

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  • FMradio

    You are normal.

    You should do it.

    But only if he breaks up with the girl or let her know, as it is an "open" marriage.

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  • xenno

    i think its totally normal. now actually doin it is a different story. id say its ok as long ashe actually has an "open relationship" with his wife... also remember to not get attached because he IS married...plus who knows how many other chicks hes diddling... or how many STD's hes contracted..yeah so if u can get past all that then go for it : 1

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  • Gidget

    If he says they have an open marriage when she is pressent in front of her then go for it if not leave it alone

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  • dingzilla

    If it's not you it's gonna be someone else. If thir really in a open type of relationship. Confirm to see if it's true then make your move.

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  • TalkAndTouch

    Ok.. Hook up with the guy just for fun BUT dont be too sure that his WIFE thinks they have an open marriage....lol

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  • jordan23

    You should kill his wife then do it on her cold dead corpse ... Yeah that's hawt

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  • infinity69

    fuck yeah!!!!! do ittttt !!!!!

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  • its normal but in 99,9999 procent of the cases the married women kills her husband and the women he had a affair whit..... XD

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  • florist

    no harm comes with fantasizing. just don't sleep with him & it'll be better not to talk to him at all.

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  • slurpeesOWN

    Don't do him but sure fantasize

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  • Ihave2try

    If they have an open relationship and it seems as if there won't be any problem on there side but how would you handle it? Will you get emotionally attached?

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  • Elissa

    Yeah dont. It will ruin both of your lives !

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  • Underdogz

    Yes. But dont. Just dont.

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  • sassiecassie

    It is totally normal! Myhusband and I have fruends that have an "open marraige" they totally mess around with other people and are ok with it

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  • ryanwilhelm1

    Do it!!

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