Is it normal to fantasise about a close friend?

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I'm in a serious relationship and love my boyfriend more than anything, but I fantasise close friend (who is my boyfriend's best friend). He isn't attractive (very overweight) but when I talk to him I can't help myself. I flirt with him a lot too, but I think he thinks I'm just taking pity on him.

Is It Normal?
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  • rurounijade
    13 years ago | pl

    me and this guy are close he dose not wanna go out with me but i love him and i told him i do but i allways think and want him to have sex with me what do i do ?

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  • justfaceit
    13 years ago | pl

    There is a subtle reason people make friends, you are erotically attracted to all of them. You're gonna be stuck in a lot of weird situations if you don't get over that fact and learn to deal with it without acting on impulse all the time... Tone down the flirting, but don't eliminate it. Do what makes you feel good without breaking boundaries.

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  • orka1
    13 years ago | pl

    He is fat and not pretty? He is a verbal seducer.

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  • Jen118584
    13 years ago | pl

    There is probably something about him that you find attractive, even if it isn't his looks. Try to lay off the flirting. You don't want to give the poor guy the wrong idea and you don't want your boyfriend to feel insecure about it. I know what you mean though....some people are just really easy to flirt with. It's harmless until they interpret it the wrong way.

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