Is it normal to fall in love with your best friend?

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Okay, so my best friend is a guy i've known for little over two years. Despite the short time we've really known each other, we seem to know each other better than anyone else. We're equally strong and smart, and we're always talking and mucking around. Through out the two years, he's been there for me through everything, he's wiped away my tears and made me laugh, and i'm always thinking about him. Anyways, over time, my feelings for him have grown and i'm not sure i'd be able to survive without him in my life...but here's the catch. We're both in relationships. Is it normal to fall in love with him whilst in a relationship with someone else?

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Based on 62 votes (51 yes)
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  • Greenizzle13
    12 years ago

    i no how u feel ive loved my bestfriend for the last 9 years but he feels nothing back so its normal

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    • naurto
      12 years ago

      are you happy with your boyfriend do you like your BF?

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      • Greenizzle13
        12 years ago

        yes im happy with my boyfriend and yeah i still like my bf

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        • naurto
          12 years ago

          i am a psychiatrist and a marriage counselor . I thank you should should tell him and maybe he has felt the same before, or maybe you two can work through it.

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  • jimena9712
    12 years ago

    Its normal. It's happening to me too, but slower, my brain tries to fight it u _ u

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    • Snow_White
      12 years ago

      :) it's nice to know someone else is going through the same thing, well sorta. :/

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  • supercrazygerman
    12 years ago

    yes i thank it is normal.

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    • Greenizzle13
      12 years ago

      u should

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      • supercrazygerman
        12 years ago

        hey girl whats up

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  • MiniVampireMolly
    12 years ago

    That Happend to me once yet i broke up with the guy i was seeing and really nervously asked out my friend who ive known for years and after i asked him out and he texted me saying "soz but no" we never talked since. So dont rewen your relationship with him now wait!!!

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  • What'sMyName?
    12 years ago

    No offense, but if I read another "I'm in love with my best friend" story I'm going to break something.

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    • Snow_White
      12 years ago

      Well don't read them then, it's not hard to do.

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