Is it normal to fall in love with a person at work?

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The thing is I am not really sure if I am doing the right thing :( I am in love with this guy who works at my dad's office. I got close to him when I went for this part time job there. He is a wonderful guy but he is not that educated, he's just a high school graduate and also he is from a financially low background :( I truly love him.

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thegypsysailor

9 years ago | pl

This is a recipe for disaster; you already have misgivings because of his education and "financially low background" and if things should go wrong between you two, then dad will probably fire him.
Simple question, really; Is satisfying your lust worth ruining his life?

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- terrace95
  
  9 years ago | pl
  
  No it's not but he really wants to be with me and he dsnt care abt losing his job :(
  
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- green_boogers
  
  9 years ago | pl
  
  I'm afraid the gypsy nailed it. If the kid wants to just be a fuck buddy, you may be OK.
  
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shootpucks66

9 years ago | pl

WTF does money have to do with anything. I was bankrupt when my GF met me and she excepted me for who I was,,, not what she wanted me to be. Give it a chance

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- terrace95
  
  9 years ago | pl
  
  Ohhh money dsnt matter to me but it matters to my parents :( So i dnt know what to do :'(
  
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RoseIsabella

9 years ago | pl

Maybe you're just infatuated?

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- terrace95
  
  9 years ago | pl
  
  I dnt think so 'coz i hav been in love wid him fr a year nw :/
  
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NeuroNeptunian

9 years ago | pl

So you supposedly want him, but you're already hung up about his education and financial background?
Gosh, and I thought *I* was superficial...

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- terrace95
  
  9 years ago | pl
  
  It's not me!
  I am all cool about his background but not my family x(
  
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  - NeuroNeptunian
    
    9 years ago | pl
    
    Value your family's opinion. The only advice I can give you in regards to that is that if he proves to be a worthy partner, throw their opinion out the door.
    
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Holzman_67

9 years ago | pl

don't screw the crew

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- terrace95
  
  9 years ago | pl
  
  I dnt want to :P
  
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CoraCook

9 years ago | pl

Does he love you too?

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- terrace95
  
  9 years ago | pl
  
  Yes very seriously.................like maybe more than me.
  
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regisphilbin

8 years ago | pl

this sounds like every movie in history.

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Pika-girl

9 years ago | pl

Yep. I've loved a lot of people...

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handsignals

9 years ago | pl

What are you Indian!?

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- terrace95
  
  9 years ago | pl
  
  Yeah :P
  
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  - handsignals
    
    9 years ago | pl
    
    So you are Indian, those Bollywood movies are shit! But your food is great :)
    
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- EccentricWeird
  
  9 years ago | pl
  
  What sort of Indian?
  
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  - handsignals
    
    9 years ago | pl
    
    The curry type, not the corn type.
    
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    - EccentricWeird
      
      9 years ago | pl
      
      I've had curry corn.
      
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      - handsignals
        
        9 years ago | pl
        
        I have reservations about eating curry corn.
        
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        thegypsysailor
        
        9 years ago | pl
        
        Do I need to make reservations to eat curry corn? Pass along the number, please.
        
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        EccentricWeird
        
        9 years ago | pl
        
        Isn't it nice when people don't jump on you for saying racist things.
        
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