You have a little daughter and your first concern should really be for her please don't forget that.
You don't want her to get used to a temporary guy who's just getting laid or decides to split for whatever reason. Things like that might traumatize her and give her a complex. The more you do that the worse impact it may be on her.
Next I'll say yes, it's normal for people to fall in love really fast *sometimes*.
I'm a guy and girls not only have sex with me super fast (1st date) but they also get emotionally bound to me quickly most of the time. Usually in under 2 dates we both decide we want to commit to each other and give it an honest try. Quite often girls have said to me, "WOW YOU'RE SUPER FAST! :) " Meaning from the moment we met somehow we're both now spellbound with each other super quickly and they love it. It's kind of like all of sudden they realize I'm the guy they're supposed to be with. Sometimes they say I'm their soulmate which is a super compliment :)
I have to admit I'm an emotional guy and I also get emotionally bound to them after we have sex. I tend not to have sex with any girl I don't honestly feel I can have a great long lasting relationship with. I'm very intelligent and mostly a good judge of character and of course I'm very attracted to these girls. I think just doing the FWB thing doesn't work nor does casually dating multiple people. If I really like a girl then I want to try to make a life with her and I certainly don't want any other guy fucking her. She feels the same about me.
And yes it's very scary for guys like me who aren't dogs just getting laid.
My biggest fear is that the girl would cheat on me and break my heart. My next biggest fear is that
I'd of lost years of my life being faithful not dating other hot girls which could be better mates to me while the girl was a cheating dog. People never get back time.
Right now the whole falling for a girl thing is kinda happening to me and I'm very annoyed about it. It's like I can feel her pulling on my heartstrings when I'm trying to work; I find myself thinking about her and imagining we're together and hooking up having fun.
My life isn't going exactly to plan right now so I'm not sure if I'm going to date her or not. Time will tell.
There's nothing more precious than one's love and trust and risking it on someone is probably the scariest and biggest risk you'll ever take.
Is it normal to fall in love fast?
← View full post
You have a little daughter and your first concern should really be for her please don't forget that.
You don't want her to get used to a temporary guy who's just getting laid or decides to split for whatever reason. Things like that might traumatize her and give her a complex. The more you do that the worse impact it may be on her.
Next I'll say yes, it's normal for people to fall in love really fast *sometimes*.
I'm a guy and girls not only have sex with me super fast (1st date) but they also get emotionally bound to me quickly most of the time. Usually in under 2 dates we both decide we want to commit to each other and give it an honest try. Quite often girls have said to me, "WOW YOU'RE SUPER FAST! :) " Meaning from the moment we met somehow we're both now spellbound with each other super quickly and they love it. It's kind of like all of sudden they realize I'm the guy they're supposed to be with. Sometimes they say I'm their soulmate which is a super compliment :)
I have to admit I'm an emotional guy and I also get emotionally bound to them after we have sex. I tend not to have sex with any girl I don't honestly feel I can have a great long lasting relationship with. I'm very intelligent and mostly a good judge of character and of course I'm very attracted to these girls. I think just doing the FWB thing doesn't work nor does casually dating multiple people. If I really like a girl then I want to try to make a life with her and I certainly don't want any other guy fucking her. She feels the same about me.
And yes it's very scary for guys like me who aren't dogs just getting laid.
My biggest fear is that the girl would cheat on me and break my heart. My next biggest fear is that
I'd of lost years of my life being faithful not dating other hot girls which could be better mates to me while the girl was a cheating dog. People never get back time.
Right now the whole falling for a girl thing is kinda happening to me and I'm very annoyed about it. It's like I can feel her pulling on my heartstrings when I'm trying to work; I find myself thinking about her and imagining we're together and hooking up having fun.
My life isn't going exactly to plan right now so I'm not sure if I'm going to date her or not. Time will tell.
There's nothing more precious than one's love and trust and risking it on someone is probably the scariest and biggest risk you'll ever take.
But if you don't take it then why are you alive?