While you were groping your first girlfriend in high school, she was being born. As you graduated from college, she was probably taking her first steps or going to pre-school. There comes a time that a 16-year (or so) age gap doesn't make much of a difference, but that time is not when one partner is 19.
Leave her alone.
At 19, she's still in the process of becoming an adult. Let her finish that process, and maybe when she's 25 or so and you're about 40, something can happen. In the meantime, just...no.
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While you were groping your first girlfriend in high school, she was being born. As you graduated from college, she was probably taking her first steps or going to pre-school. There comes a time that a 16-year (or so) age gap doesn't make much of a difference, but that time is not when one partner is 19.
Leave her alone.
At 19, she's still in the process of becoming an adult. Let her finish that process, and maybe when she's 25 or so and you're about 40, something can happen. In the meantime, just...no.