Is it normal to fall for men that look like my dad

I’m 18 and I have made love with two men so far and they have both been much older than me and now I realised that they both look a lot like my Dad. It was a bit of a shock to me as I didn’t intentionally set out to fall for men who looked like him. Is this sort of thing normal?

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  • amber62

    Like I said, I'm sure that it was an accident but it did feel nice having a real mans hand there for the first time, even if it was Daddy. so yes i suppose i didnt mind.

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  • edwininthematrix

    You crave everything your dad represents such as trust, companionship, and security and you seek similar qualities in other men. You're clearly associating his personality with his appearance and therefore finding men who resemble him more attractive.

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  • amber62

    NO!!!, you seem to be suggesting that he's groping me!?
    Yes he kept his hand there for a few seconds longer than he should have and Yes, I did enjoy being touched there, most girls would, but i think that Dad didn't set out to rub me like he did.

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    • Txpaint

      It does sound like to me that you wouldn't mind if your daddy put his cock out for you to play with. Or if you pulled your panties aside and let him play with you. Sounds like you're on the fence of whether you will or will that you won't. I will tell you from a dead standpoint it's the most amazing thing you will ever experience if both of y'all are on the same page

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      • amber62

        NO NO...Daddy wouldn't do anything like that on purpose!!
        I get wet when we play if I'm half naked and he's in a towel after his shower,of course I do, hes very muscular and without panties on, there is always a chance that if Dad lost his towel, like I lose my cotton slip sometimes, he could accidentally do something to me....by mistake?

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        • Txpaint

          Only thing I'm saying is maybe just accidentally-on-purpose let him see you then that might help the situation along just a little bit

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  • DuchessK

    Yes it is normal. Scientists think that a girl seeks to be with men who are like her dad for biological and psychological reasons, so I believe it is fine.

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  • Txpaint

    Cuz I think it would be fun to tell you about some of the things that I have grown up with. and to try to give you some ideas about how to achieve your ultimate goal.

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  • Txpaint

    No we are always naked but my sisters weren't there it was just me and my dad my sisters came like every now and then until my step-mom came into the picture and then try to hang around more but me and my sisters were always naked

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  • Txpaint

    Well before my stepmother married my dad she would come and spend the weekend and sometimes during the week with me while my dad traveled. I would always make sure that she saw me no matter what, if I was jacking off in bed, if I was getting in the shower, getting out of the shower. accidentally in the living room because I thought she was upstairs & wasn't coming down. you know whatever my little adolescent mind would dream up and it worked. she started wearing nothing but panties and by the time she wound up moving in, she already seen me and played with me a lot.Mom talked dad into a bigger house so it was just obvious what was going to happen. my sisters stayed instead of moving in with their mother and my stepmother became a nudist like us. except she did it a little more educational. but back then I didn't care about educational, I just cared about seeing her naked.

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  • Txpaint

    Exactly if her dad just happens to see her totally naked are her towel just happens to fall off that will be one step closer to her goal and I know what her goal is

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  • Txpaint

    So have you let your dad and your brother see you yet

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  • amber62

    Me and my dad like ticking games and this one occasion, I was 15 and I was just out of the bath and all I had on was a short cotton slip. I'm really ticklish on my inner thigh and as we played, I wriggled and his hand went between my legs! Just an accident really,as he tickled me the upped part of his hand rubbed against me down there. Oops!!

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  • JonathanOo

    Completely normal. You may even like your dad if he's a really good guy. Maybe he made toy realize the type of man you want to be with someday

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  • Bigruss

    Most girls do nothing is wrong with that make you feel safe and secure

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  • mrsteve

    My ex girlfriend admitted she started going out with me because I looked a little like her elder brother witch I thought a bit weird

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  • Txpaint

    I did try this email I don't like Gmail very much
    [email protected]

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  • Txpaint

    I sent you a response on my email you never email back

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  • BlackCatsAreAwesome

    I'd never want to date a girl who looks like my mum though. I like my girls very opposite of myself or my relatives.

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  • amber62

    What my dad?...he has sort of but playing.

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  • justlooking1976

    You and dad need to get a lot closer. Like really fucking close!

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  • Wiccan13

    Could be daddy issues. Range from him not taking care of you to hurting you. Sexual abuse. Some reason we like to return to the crime scene. I was neglected by both parents and I notice that I fall for women who remind me of my mom and guys who way are older and father me.

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    • amber62

      My Dad has never been abusive in any way. We are physically close like Cuddling, but not in a sexual way.

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  • Justmehere

    No, but it did go through my head a few times as we walked around. I was in the middle of both of them, thinking..How fun would it be to have them at the same time?

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  • Justmehere

    Maybe you see him as your ideal in some way. Protector, companion, etc.. After my divorce, most of the women I dated closely resembled my hot older sister, whom I've messed around with over the years. Same long, dark hair, pretty face, fit body, and long (very, if possible), polished nails. The closer they looked to her, the better. And more aroused I was.

    Did date one who was so close that, when we met up with hot sister at a casino one night, even I had to be sure of who was who. Not that I minded. Was like being with twins!

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  • kidneyliver

    Yes.

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