Is it normal to fall for men that look like my Dad

I’m 18 and I have made love with two men so far and they have both been much older than me and now I realised that they both look a lot like my Dad. It was a bit of a shock to me as I didn’t intentionally set out to fall for men who looked like him. Is this sort of thing normal?

Is It Normal?
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  • You crave everything your dad represents such as trust, companionship, and security and you seek similar qualities in other men. You're clearly associating his personality with his appearance and therefore finding men who resemble him more attractive.

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  • Yes it is normal. Scientists think that a girl seeks to be with men who are like her dad for biological and psychological reasons, so I believe it is fine.

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  • Could be daddy issues. Range from him not taking care of you to hurting you. Sexual abuse. Some reason we like to return to the crime scene. I was neglected by both parents and I notice that I fall for women who remind me of my mom and guys who way are older and father me.

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    • My Dad has never been abusive in any way. We are physically close like Cuddling, but not in a sexual way.

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  • Maybe you see him as your ideal in some way. Protector, companion, etc.. After my divorce, most of the women I dated closely resembled my hot older sister, whom I've messed around with over the years. Same long, dark hair, pretty face, fit body, and long (very, if possible), polished nails. The closer they looked to her, the better. And more aroused I was.

    Did date one who was so close that, when we met up with hot sister at a casino one night, even I had to be sure of who was who. Not that I minded. Was like being with twins!

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    • Did you threesome with her and sis?

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      • No, but it did go through my head a few times as we walked around. I was in the middle of both of them, thinking..How fun would it be to have them at the same time?

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  • Yes.

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  • Completely normal. You may even like your dad if he's a really good guy. Maybe he made toy realize the type of man you want to be with someday

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