How's he supposed to get any better if you are lying to him by essentially telling him he's doing a good enough job to satisfy you? Ever think of that?
Yes I have, I'm just having a hard time telling him because he may feel as if I've been lying to him for four months. I also don't want him to lose his confidence and then have trouble being with me intimately.
I see what you are saying. Next time, I think you should be honest from the beginning. That way, nobody has to get their feelings hurt. Maybe there are things you could do though. I know that many libraries have excellent books about sex positions and things of that matter. With a little encouragement, I'm sure you could persuade him (in a nice, doesn't-completely-destroy-his-confidence kind of way) to learn some new techniques and ways to improve. Good luck.
I agree, he can't learn to be a better lover if he is told he already is great! I had no idea what I was doing when I started, thankfully I got it figured out! lolz
Don't tell him you've been faking it for 4 months though. Just give him some orders. Then when he does something right say "wow that time was the best yet" or something.
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How's he supposed to get any better if you are lying to him by essentially telling him he's doing a good enough job to satisfy you? Ever think of that?
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Yes I have, I'm just having a hard time telling him because he may feel as if I've been lying to him for four months. I also don't want him to lose his confidence and then have trouble being with me intimately.
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I see what you are saying. Next time, I think you should be honest from the beginning. That way, nobody has to get their feelings hurt. Maybe there are things you could do though. I know that many libraries have excellent books about sex positions and things of that matter. With a little encouragement, I'm sure you could persuade him (in a nice, doesn't-completely-destroy-his-confidence kind of way) to learn some new techniques and ways to improve. Good luck.
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I agree, he can't learn to be a better lover if he is told he already is great! I had no idea what I was doing when I started, thankfully I got it figured out! lolz
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Lol. That is good :)
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Don't tell him you've been faking it for 4 months though. Just give him some orders. Then when he does something right say "wow that time was the best yet" or something.
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I believe you meant to reply to aminormal11 (the original poster).
Lol.