Is it normal to fake your orgasm everytime

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I've been intimate with my boyfriend for about 4 months now. We were each other's 'first', so of course the first time we had sex it wasn't great for me. I was expecting that. But now we have sex on a regular basis, and while it does feel good, I find myself faking an orgasm every time. My friends talk about sex as if they climax every time, so I'm wondering if my predicament is normal or not.

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  • Shackleford96
    11 years ago

    How's he supposed to get any better if you are lying to him by essentially telling him he's doing a good enough job to satisfy you? Ever think of that?

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    • aminormal11
      11 years ago

      Yes I have, I'm just having a hard time telling him because he may feel as if I've been lying to him for four months. I also don't want him to lose his confidence and then have trouble being with me intimately.

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      • Shackleford96
        11 years ago

        I see what you are saying. Next time, I think you should be honest from the beginning. That way, nobody has to get their feelings hurt. Maybe there are things you could do though. I know that many libraries have excellent books about sex positions and things of that matter. With a little encouragement, I'm sure you could persuade him (in a nice, doesn't-completely-destroy-his-confidence kind of way) to learn some new techniques and ways to improve. Good luck.

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        • Captain_Kegstand
          11 years ago

          I agree, he can't learn to be a better lover if he is told he already is great! I had no idea what I was doing when I started, thankfully I got it figured out! lolz

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          • Shackleford96
            11 years ago

            Lol. That is good :)

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            • UnrecognizableMan
              11 years ago

              Don't tell him you've been faking it for 4 months though. Just give him some orders. Then when he does something right say "wow that time was the best yet" or something.

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  • iisabel
    11 years ago

    try have sex with girls ;)

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    • aminormal11
      11 years ago

      No thanks :)

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      • peterr
        10 years ago

        Get him to eat you out more.

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  • BlackDays
    11 years ago

    No no no. Fake is not awesome. Seeing as your each others firsts, neither one of you is going to really know what your doing. It takes time and some practice. You can still enjoy the sex without faking it. Have you ever even had an actual orgasm?

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    • aminormal11
      11 years ago

      Yeah but only through self-pleasure and clitoral stimulation.

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