Faking orgasms is bad form. Honestly, both of you lose because you're lying to him about his performance and you're not actually orgasming. I think that you should be honest with him about what's going on, and work together with him to find what will really satisfy you. You should experiment and try new things as a couple, like for example watching you masturbate so he can learn by observation. If in reality you can't orgasm with him, you should explain to him that it's not his fault and that you enjoy sex anyway even if you don't finish. It would be healthier for everyone involved.
Is it normal to fake an orgasm most of the time I have sex?
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Faking orgasms is bad form. Honestly, both of you lose because you're lying to him about his performance and you're not actually orgasming. I think that you should be honest with him about what's going on, and work together with him to find what will really satisfy you. You should experiment and try new things as a couple, like for example watching you masturbate so he can learn by observation. If in reality you can't orgasm with him, you should explain to him that it's not his fault and that you enjoy sex anyway even if you don't finish. It would be healthier for everyone involved.