Is it normal to fake an orgasm most of the time i have sex?

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My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now and we have had our fair share of sex. I always find it enjoyable but i can never seem to find my release. So i feel guilty because he looks disappointed in himself when i don't finish so I fake it majority of the time. There has only been a couple of times when i actually do orgasm, the rest i never can finish.

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  • quentari
    10 years ago

    Women who fake orgasms are less likely to have a real one. Just explain to him and change your technique

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  • StarTeddy
    10 years ago

    Faking orgasms is bad form. Honestly, both of you lose because you're lying to him about his performance and you're not actually orgasming. I think that you should be honest with him about what's going on, and work together with him to find what will really satisfy you. You should experiment and try new things as a couple, like for example watching you masturbate so he can learn by observation. If in reality you can't orgasm with him, you should explain to him that it's not his fault and that you enjoy sex anyway even if you don't finish. It would be healthier for everyone involved.

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  • ygrowup
    10 years ago

    It's normal, but you should seek to teach him what your needs are to achieve full release

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  • Kaczynski
    10 years ago

    Nothing beats a genuine explosion.

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  • wistfulmaiden
    9 years ago

    Ive always faked orgasms. Yes you can fake the spasms too. Im not saying its right or wrong butthey Do feel bad if you don't orgasm. And Im not willing to spend two hours to teach him how to do a perfect technique on me when I can do it myself in a few minutes. What they don't know wont hurt them (unless you get angry one day and tell them you've been faking. THAT hurts).

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  • lala85
    10 years ago

    I do it all the time. Maybe you guys can get more creative in the bedroom and see if that helps.

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