I think you are wasting your time. You should be with someone who wants you to be happy and who wants to be with you entirely. There is no way, legally, that a divorce could keep him from seeing his children.
Look, your boyfriend knows what your wants are, knows the way you feel, knows that you are frustrated with his lack of action. And he doesn't seem to care, right? You have never been married before, I take it. Don't you want to marry someone who wants to marry you? You shouldn't have to convince someone to marry you.
If you are drifting, my advice to you is to let it drift. Struggling to make it work, struggling to convince him to marry you....it all sounds very exhausting, isn't it?
is it normal to expect your partner for 8 yrs to get commited to you
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I think you are wasting your time. You should be with someone who wants you to be happy and who wants to be with you entirely. There is no way, legally, that a divorce could keep him from seeing his children.
Look, your boyfriend knows what your wants are, knows the way you feel, knows that you are frustrated with his lack of action. And he doesn't seem to care, right? You have never been married before, I take it. Don't you want to marry someone who wants to marry you? You shouldn't have to convince someone to marry you.
If you are drifting, my advice to you is to let it drift. Struggling to make it work, struggling to convince him to marry you....it all sounds very exhausting, isn't it?