Is it normal to enjoy using dildos on my wife more than sex with her?
I enjoy using a dildo or vibrator on my wife, or watching her use one, instead of having sex with her. I like to see the pleasure she gets from it and watching her have an orgasm, without me having to concentrate on what I'm doing so much. I've also considered that maybe it has a threesome aspect to it that neither of us would actually do with a third person.