Is it normal to enjoy/hate gay thoughts?

I'm a guy and often have gay thoughts, been on a few gay websites and get turned on by what I see.

I often have thoughts of being with other men and masterbate to these thoughts. Though after I've climaxed I lose all interest in what I was thinking and realize just how disgusting it was and can't imagine doing what I was thinking.

I don't understand, so my question is, is it normal to have these gay thoughts and lose them just as fast?

Is It Normal?
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  • Id have to say, if you get hard thinking about both sexes- then you are bi.

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  • Umm, I think you and I may be in a similar boat. I follow a similar pattern of debauchery and then disgust. I can't honestly tell you what I think the root is because it takes a lot of backstory and it involves religion and that usually turns some people away.

    Indulging the feelings is usually only a temporary fix for a deeper emotional conflict. I'd say chech out Laughterfrompurity.com for some possible insight and assistance.

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  • Uhm sounds to me you must be bi. Because a totally straight man would not get turned on by other men. And I'm not saying that's a bad thing, I just wanted to point that out to you.

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    • I agree with this guy. If you're not gay and your having these thoughts, then you gotta be bi. It's nothing to be ashamed of. I'm bi and I figured that out the same way you did.

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