Is it possible that your boyfriend was himself the victim of rape? It's a lot more common than is commonly believed. If he was the victim of a sexual assault or rape, he might find the whole idea of your scenario scary and maybe even disgusting for reasons you don't understand.
It's also possible he just doesn't see the point of role play. Lots of guys don't, especially younger ones. When you're twenty-something and you've been with your girlfriend for just a few months, everything is fresh and hot enough for plain old vanilla sex to be fantastic.
I agree with JonathanOo: if he won't go along with your fairly hard-core fantasy right now, you need to start easy. Does he have any sexual kinks or quirks? If so, maybe you could suggest some very tame role-play to indulge those. Perhaps, with time, and after a few scenarios, he might be more willing to go along with your fantasy.
Unfortunately, it's possible he's just a nice guy with limited imagination and very tame sexual preferences. If that's the case, then I think you have an uphill battle to get him to rape role-play.
IIN to enjoy being raped¿
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Is it possible that your boyfriend was himself the victim of rape? It's a lot more common than is commonly believed. If he was the victim of a sexual assault or rape, he might find the whole idea of your scenario scary and maybe even disgusting for reasons you don't understand.
It's also possible he just doesn't see the point of role play. Lots of guys don't, especially younger ones. When you're twenty-something and you've been with your girlfriend for just a few months, everything is fresh and hot enough for plain old vanilla sex to be fantastic.
I agree with JonathanOo: if he won't go along with your fairly hard-core fantasy right now, you need to start easy. Does he have any sexual kinks or quirks? If so, maybe you could suggest some very tame role-play to indulge those. Perhaps, with time, and after a few scenarios, he might be more willing to go along with your fantasy.
Unfortunately, it's possible he's just a nice guy with limited imagination and very tame sexual preferences. If that's the case, then I think you have an uphill battle to get him to rape role-play.