Well I'll tell you what I think. I think talking about marriage and moving to live together at the very beggining of a relationship is something bad, same goes for promises of always being together. Why? Because at the beggining, you're infatuated. You say things that sound perfect at the time and when years go by and things don't go as planned, it hurts deeply because you imagined all these wonderful things you wanted to do with that person and all that's left are those words stuck in your memory.
I think you did the right choice. It will hurt for a while, maybe even a long time. You need to live your life. You're not ready to be in something commited like you said. I'm sure he will try anything to have you back. Just tell him you're not ready for this big commitment. Maybe in the future but not right now. You're 18, join the army, go visit the world, do what you want.
Imagine if you stayed with him, moved with him and got married. What if you couldn't have joined the army and see your friends, go on trips, get tattoos? Down the line you would have been sad or feel like you missed out on your youth and all your dreams.
I think you did the good choice. Try to keep yourself busy to not let your mind only think of him. It will pass with time. I wish you the best.
I think you are simply the best:) you give amazing advice:) thank you sososososooo much:) i have mad respect for a person like you. You know whats up:) youre brilliant. Once again, thank you. I owe you! You have no idea how awesome you are:) grazie:) thank you thank you thank you:) you helped me a lot. I know it sounds crazy because youve only commented on my posts, but once again, youre amazing :)
Well it's people like you who keep me running. Funny enough I was thinking about stoping using this website and I told myself today is the last day because I feel like I'm not saying anything productive. You made me want to stay a while longer to help out more people.
Thank you again for your kind words that mean a lot to me :) If you ever have any other stories, tell me :)
Yes! But make it a nose hair, they take more effort. Can I have a toenail too? Or maybe an eyelid? Gosh, how weird would someone look without an eyelid. Anyway, I don't want you to bleed to death though...
Noooooo!!!!:,( dont leave! People need awesome people like you to give amazing advice!! Im serious:) you DO say productive things:) you have opened my mind and made me realize things that i never could have without your help!! You should concider being a relationship councelor or some sort of therapist. Id come see you. Thats how awesome you are. And everyone seems to agree with the things you say:) automatic indicator that your advice is meaningful and wonderful:) great job:)
Well here's what I think. We are all numbers. If it's not me, it will be someone else. I felt like I had to pass down the torch but you made me want to hold it for a while longer :)
I don't know if I could be a relationship councelor, I've only had one relationship in my life and I did plenty of mistakes in it. Nothing horrible like cheating but I still felt bad inside when I did something wrong that caused her to be mad or sad. I just learned from mistakes. I just say what I think makes sense when I post something to a story who asks for help. Also I don't want to spend x amount of years at school with 50 useless classes that will have to do nothing with what I want to become. If they courses were removed and you only had classes related to the job you wanted to do, I'd so be in school tomorrow. But I think I'll stay with my job till retirement.
So don't worry, I'm not leaving now. If I do, you can always look at my profile and spam message me to come back, haha.
Anyways, have a great night/day depending on where you are in the world!
Well you know a lot about relationship stuff and giving great advice:) im out here on the west coast:) woohooo!!
Thank you again for your awesome advice:)
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Well I'll tell you what I think. I think talking about marriage and moving to live together at the very beggining of a relationship is something bad, same goes for promises of always being together. Why? Because at the beggining, you're infatuated. You say things that sound perfect at the time and when years go by and things don't go as planned, it hurts deeply because you imagined all these wonderful things you wanted to do with that person and all that's left are those words stuck in your memory.
I think you did the right choice. It will hurt for a while, maybe even a long time. You need to live your life. You're not ready to be in something commited like you said. I'm sure he will try anything to have you back. Just tell him you're not ready for this big commitment. Maybe in the future but not right now. You're 18, join the army, go visit the world, do what you want.
Imagine if you stayed with him, moved with him and got married. What if you couldn't have joined the army and see your friends, go on trips, get tattoos? Down the line you would have been sad or feel like you missed out on your youth and all your dreams.
I think you did the good choice. Try to keep yourself busy to not let your mind only think of him. It will pass with time. I wish you the best.
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I think you are simply the best:) you give amazing advice:) thank you sososososooo much:) i have mad respect for a person like you. You know whats up:) youre brilliant. Once again, thank you. I owe you! You have no idea how awesome you are:) grazie:) thank you thank you thank you:) you helped me a lot. I know it sounds crazy because youve only commented on my posts, but once again, youre amazing :)
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Well it's people like you who keep me running. Funny enough I was thinking about stoping using this website and I told myself today is the last day because I feel like I'm not saying anything productive. You made me want to stay a while longer to help out more people.
Thank you again for your kind words that mean a lot to me :) If you ever have any other stories, tell me :)
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Please do not leave. I love stalking y.. I mean, uh, reading your comments :D
Seriously though, I would probably be devastated if you left :(
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Yes! But make it a nose hair, they take more effort. Can I have a toenail too? Or maybe an eyelid? Gosh, how weird would someone look without an eyelid. Anyway, I don't want you to bleed to death though...
Noooooo!!!!:,( dont leave! People need awesome people like you to give amazing advice!! Im serious:) you DO say productive things:) you have opened my mind and made me realize things that i never could have without your help!! You should concider being a relationship councelor or some sort of therapist. Id come see you. Thats how awesome you are. And everyone seems to agree with the things you say:) automatic indicator that your advice is meaningful and wonderful:) great job:)
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Well here's what I think. We are all numbers. If it's not me, it will be someone else. I felt like I had to pass down the torch but you made me want to hold it for a while longer :)
I don't know if I could be a relationship councelor, I've only had one relationship in my life and I did plenty of mistakes in it. Nothing horrible like cheating but I still felt bad inside when I did something wrong that caused her to be mad or sad. I just learned from mistakes. I just say what I think makes sense when I post something to a story who asks for help. Also I don't want to spend x amount of years at school with 50 useless classes that will have to do nothing with what I want to become. If they courses were removed and you only had classes related to the job you wanted to do, I'd so be in school tomorrow. But I think I'll stay with my job till retirement.
So don't worry, I'm not leaving now. If I do, you can always look at my profile and spam message me to come back, haha.
Anyways, have a great night/day depending on where you are in the world!
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Well you know a lot about relationship stuff and giving great advice:) im out here on the west coast:) woohooo!!
Thank you again for your awesome advice:)