That seems to be the thing though, I become fetishized only after I get to know the person. I don't really introduce myself like "Hey, I don't have a dick" It's usually after a few dates I bring it up.
I've tried leaving it untold until we got to bed, and that really didn't play over well. And the times I have met someone who had prior knowledge or I told early on, those women treated it as all I was. I had a Tinder for like a week and put in that I was intersex and got bombarded by bisexual men and dominatrixes. Which I have no problem with, but really wasn't what I was going for.
If I wasn't born the way I am, I'd be prudish as all hell, but being as I am, I've kinda been forced into this whole kink community and I'm just not into it. I like that people find me sexy, don't get me wrong, I'd be damn complimented if I was seen as a hunky piece of meat, but not when I'm trying to have an actual relationship. Also from years of insecurities I've kinda created a lowlying dislike for bisexual women. Which is god awful of me, I know. But I've heard variations of "Oh well I like girls and guys so this works" too many damn times.
crap dude. I don't blame you. I'd say that there are a bunch of low-sex drive vanilla progressive girls, but they'd have the hidden motive of the relationship being 'queer' and 'woke' which I honestly don't know if that's any better. I hope some no bullshit awesome girl comes your way soon.
Is it normal to embrace being fetishized? Intersex.
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That seems to be the thing though, I become fetishized only after I get to know the person. I don't really introduce myself like "Hey, I don't have a dick" It's usually after a few dates I bring it up.
I've tried leaving it untold until we got to bed, and that really didn't play over well. And the times I have met someone who had prior knowledge or I told early on, those women treated it as all I was. I had a Tinder for like a week and put in that I was intersex and got bombarded by bisexual men and dominatrixes. Which I have no problem with, but really wasn't what I was going for.
If I wasn't born the way I am, I'd be prudish as all hell, but being as I am, I've kinda been forced into this whole kink community and I'm just not into it. I like that people find me sexy, don't get me wrong, I'd be damn complimented if I was seen as a hunky piece of meat, but not when I'm trying to have an actual relationship. Also from years of insecurities I've kinda created a lowlying dislike for bisexual women. Which is god awful of me, I know. But I've heard variations of "Oh well I like girls and guys so this works" too many damn times.
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crap dude. I don't blame you. I'd say that there are a bunch of low-sex drive vanilla progressive girls, but they'd have the hidden motive of the relationship being 'queer' and 'woke' which I honestly don't know if that's any better. I hope some no bullshit awesome girl comes your way soon.