Hmm. A real "caught between a rock and a hard place" type of situation. I'd say DON'T embrace being fetishized, Because it sounds like you don't want to be. Because being fetishized is ultimately dehumanizing, a sexualized form of seeing someone as "the other". And most of us would hate that, especially if one doesn't choose it and it's thrusted upon them by other people in society against their will. Realistically speaking the women you're likely to end up with will probably have more than a few fetishists among them. It'll take much explaining of your point of view to them. Those that truly care about your feelings and well-being will make an effort to see and treat you as a normal human being and not just a kinky exotic sex toy for them to get off on. Best wishes.
Is it normal to embrace being fetishized? Intersex.
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Hmm. A real "caught between a rock and a hard place" type of situation. I'd say DON'T embrace being fetishized, Because it sounds like you don't want to be. Because being fetishized is ultimately dehumanizing, a sexualized form of seeing someone as "the other". And most of us would hate that, especially if one doesn't choose it and it's thrusted upon them by other people in society against their will. Realistically speaking the women you're likely to end up with will probably have more than a few fetishists among them. It'll take much explaining of your point of view to them. Those that truly care about your feelings and well-being will make an effort to see and treat you as a normal human being and not just a kinky exotic sex toy for them to get off on. Best wishes.