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It is a terrible bother to me throughout the school day especially when I have a class with an attractive girl because if I get slightly aroused at all I ejaculate in my pants. I can't think dirty thoughts at all or even make eye contact with a hot chick or I'll have to change underwear again.
In public places Muslims have a prayer room, Christians have a chapel, parents have a baby change room, druggies have a needle shoot-up room but society has forgotten about the hormone charged teenager. Where's the Public masturbation room.
Seriously mate, don't sweat it. wear a franger. Something I told my teenage son, is lock the door if you're going to have a pull, else it can be very embarrassing.
It is normal when you are young and sexually frustrated (without regular sex with someone). The good news is that it will become less frequent and less intense when you get older. Also, masturbating regularly can help to reduce the sexual tension. Anyway, do not worry about it too much, I know that it is annoying or embarrassing and it destroys the ability to concentrate or focus on anything but these symptoms which you describe can occur mainly when boys are at their teens when all your body starts to change due to "hormonal / testosterone storm" and your body has to adapt to the dramatically new state. Masturbation can help a bit and over the years two things will help: aging and having regular sex (possibly combined with masturbation when your future partner will have lower sex drive which is quite possible because women / girls are completely different in this regard as you will sooner or later realize).
To sum up, your bodily reaction is normal at your age, it used to happen also to me years ago. It can be unpleasant and disturbing but it will get better in few years when you find out some ways to deal with your (probably high) sex drive.
You didn't provide any information about your masturbation habits so I may not tell you anything new but anyway... I'd suggest masturbating multiple times a day. Masturbate in the morning before you go to school. To reduce the problem during school days, you can also do it in a school toilet, perhaps in a cubicle if you are afraid of being caught. It may be usefull to do it especially before you have a class with those attractive girls. Some people could feel weird to do it there but it still might be more comfortable than ejaculating into your pants. Anyway, you won't be the first person in the world who has been doing it there :) I guess it doesn't take long to you to ejaculate so it may not be such a big deal. Even if your male classmates found out about your "toilet habits" and wanted to make fun of it, don't let them make you feel bad about it. If you perceive it as your "weakness", don't show them - on the contrary, you can challenge them by saying something like "What's the problem? Don't have you the balls to do it here?" or challenge their "manliness" by saying that they have low libido in comparison with you. All things considered, I think that jerking at a school toilet may not be that bad if you will be careful to avoid being caught or if you develop a good "strategy" how to deal with it.
All in all, the key point of my advice is to masturbate multiple times a day. It probably takes you only a short time to cum so it may not be very complicated. However, besides those short "masturbation sessions", I think it could be helpful if you found more time for masturbation sometimes and practiced so called "stop and go masturbation method" (google it if you don't know about it). It can be a good prevention against fixating the habit of very fast ejaculation and it can help you to learn how to control your ejaculation. Hope this helps.
Yeah, perhaps a condom.. or wear two pairs of underwear.
If the latter, i recommend boxers.
Oh wow, that would really suck. Have you ever tried going to a doctor or something about this? That doesn't sound normal at all.