Is it normal to dump someone becuase they make you horny ?

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Is it normal I dumped a guy because he made me horny ? I had this guy friend who had a major crush on me and took me dance bought me chocolates , he calls me his angel and still to this day he calls me that . I ignore him though I broke up with and I broke his heart however he was driving me insane . As I do not have a sexdrive around anyone and even if I kiss someone I do not get horny even if it feels good I do not get fully aroused . I have been trying to force this arousal for years as I am the only one who does not seem to get it out of all the people I have known. However when I did with him I did and this frustrated me because every time he merely hugs me I get wet and I want it really bad . I became disgusted with my self and this feeling so I dumped him . Ironically he made a very good impression on my parents and they are content on me marrying him but I will date god near anyone aside from him because sexual arousal is irritating and I avoid it at all costs . Also he is the same race as me I do not know if that means anything to this . I would be more content in having sex with someone I do not want intercourse with but I loved and one day married rather than someone who makes me horny . Is there something wrong with me ? Why do I feel this way ?

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  • VioletTrees
    11 years ago

    No, this isn't normal. Your feelings about sexual arousal seem very unhealthy. You shouldn't feel ashamed or dirty for being aroused.

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  • norilneko
    11 years ago

    What is the big deal about sexual arousal? Were you forced to have sex as a kid or something? That could be it.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Is it normal that im confused?? You would rather have sex with someone you dont find sexually attractive?? Is that shit possible? You might as well go fuck a dog

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    • Allistalla
      11 years ago

      what is with you poeple and wanting to have sex with dogs . Stop spreading it we do not have to have sex with dogs like you why does everyone have to go there for the love of GOD .

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      • [Old Memory]
        11 years ago

        And i never said you had to fuck a dog i was just throwing out the option... If you dont want to do that you can just as easily go fuck yourself.

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      • [Old Memory]
        11 years ago

        God is dog spelt backwards.

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    • [Old Memory]
      11 years ago

      No disrespect tho lolzz

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    No. Your "feelings" about something as natural as sexual arousal aren't normal.

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  • dirtybirdy
    11 years ago

    Just how much medication are you on?!?!

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    11 years ago

    There's nothing wrong with you, but why do you feel bothered by something that's so natural?

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    • Justsomejerk
      11 years ago

      Whoa, let's not jump to conclusions.

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  • YouKnowWho
    11 years ago

    Arousal is just a physical reaction and it has nothing logical about it. So it should be irrelevant. I believe you should disconsider that when deciding whether or not you would like to date or get married to someone.

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  • bananaface
    11 years ago

    I don't see how his race is relevant, but whatever.

    This is not normal. You don't want to have sex with people who sexually arouse you, but with those who do nothing for you? If you don't want to have sex with someone, then why do it? And why are you disgusted by your own feelings?

    Tbh, you would be lucky to have him. You are attracted to him, and he sounds like a good guy from what you've put. Maybe you are trying to prevent yourself from being in a happy relationship...? If so, that's not normal, but I get it.

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    • Allistalla
      11 years ago

      I dont know I have had alot of relationships I was happy in and they all left me . Also I hate the feeling of sex becuase when I am horny this emotion overpowers everything and it drives me nuts I have a very strong sex drive and I hate the feeling of it so I supress it and when I can not control it I am utterly disgusted . also my relationships are never balanced either they have to dominate me I completly dominate them .

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      • shuggy-chan
        11 years ago

        im not trying to be funny, but you need to find someone with your same crazy, it might balance out, you you guy would take turn dominating idk lol

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        • Allistalla
          11 years ago

          Your know what you completly right ! I need someone as insane as me to balance out my insanity that is the only way ill ever be happy but that is so hard to find Im off the hinges .

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          • TerryVie
            11 years ago

            yep. and sorry to say that bluntly, but i feel offended that you compare your crazyness to haruhi's crazyness. -_-

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            • Allistalla
              11 years ago

              Oh I did not think anyonw beside me and Chanso knew who she was !

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            • Allistalla
              11 years ago

              No more like the stuff I do .

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          • shuggy-chan
            11 years ago

            that or you need to find the opposite, some really sturdy hinges that will hang on

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            • Allistalla
              11 years ago

              so find someone who is perfectly stable to counter act my madness ? Than Id get bored ?

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