It sounds like your boyfriend needs to give a higher priority to getting more sleep. Lots of people believe sleep is a waste of time or less important than other things they could be doing, but we all need a certain amount of sleep every night and it's likely your boyfriend's brain is telling him he's not getting enough.
Sex doesn't have to be wild and vigorous and like a porn video all the time. Slow and lazy sex can be great.
The big question here is whether you're happy about this happening. If you don't enjoy it physically and you just want him to get it over and done with so you can go to sleep, or if you feel annoyed or hurt because it feels to you like he's sorta forgetting that you're there, then it's a problem. Alternatively, if you enjoy the sensuality of holding him inside you while he dozes, then I don't see the problem.
As always with sex, it doesn't matter what percentage of the population does something or how many people find it weird. All that really matters is if the people involved find it enjoyable and if it does something positive for their relationship.
Is it normal to doze off or fall asleep during sex?
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It sounds like your boyfriend needs to give a higher priority to getting more sleep. Lots of people believe sleep is a waste of time or less important than other things they could be doing, but we all need a certain amount of sleep every night and it's likely your boyfriend's brain is telling him he's not getting enough.
Sex doesn't have to be wild and vigorous and like a porn video all the time. Slow and lazy sex can be great.
The big question here is whether you're happy about this happening. If you don't enjoy it physically and you just want him to get it over and done with so you can go to sleep, or if you feel annoyed or hurt because it feels to you like he's sorta forgetting that you're there, then it's a problem. Alternatively, if you enjoy the sensuality of holding him inside you while he dozes, then I don't see the problem.
As always with sex, it doesn't matter what percentage of the population does something or how many people find it weird. All that really matters is if the people involved find it enjoyable and if it does something positive for their relationship.