Is it normal to doze off or fall asleep during sex?

My boyfriend and I have very late night sex. Sometimes we will be doing the deed and he will begin moving slower and slower until he stops. He falls asleep. He will doze quietly or snore, but he doesn’t go soft and he will occasionally wake up and continue. Is this normal?

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37% Normal
Based on 51 votes (19 yes)
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  • Boojum

    It sounds like your boyfriend needs to give a higher priority to getting more sleep. Lots of people believe sleep is a waste of time or less important than other things they could be doing, but we all need a certain amount of sleep every night and it's likely your boyfriend's brain is telling him he's not getting enough.

    Sex doesn't have to be wild and vigorous and like a porn video all the time. Slow and lazy sex can be great.

    The big question here is whether you're happy about this happening. If you don't enjoy it physically and you just want him to get it over and done with so you can go to sleep, or if you feel annoyed or hurt because it feels to you like he's sorta forgetting that you're there, then it's a problem. Alternatively, if you enjoy the sensuality of holding him inside you while he dozes, then I don't see the problem.

    As always with sex, it doesn't matter what percentage of the population does something or how many people find it weird. All that really matters is if the people involved find it enjoyable and if it does something positive for their relationship.

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  • Absentoday

    Exgf and I would crash out during sex and pick up where we left off. Usually it's very early in the morning or after having too much fun earlier that night.

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  • Imswelling

    You need to get a male friend to hide in the closet and when your boyfriend falls asleep your friend can sneak over and slide his dick in your boyfriends ass. That way you know if he is really asleep or if he is gay.

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  • Handyman

    Maybe afterwards, yes.

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  • SKDM007

    "very late sex" that just says it all, get some sleep then try again

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  • WhatTheAbsoluteFuck

    If my partner fell asleep during sex I would feel like my dick is to small):

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  • EternallyHis

    Your man shouldn't be falling asleep during sex. Period. If this is a problem late at night, why not trying having sex earlier in the day or in the evening?

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  • Brombro

    Not Normal...

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  • Weird

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  • TS

    How do I get back there to
    The place where I fell asleep inside you?

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gjdLAsnR_Ws

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  • paracetamol

    Thats not normal.

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  • RoseIsabella

    I had a friend a few years back who told me that sometimes her boyfriend would doze off while he was on the toilet.

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    • Tato

      I once got back from a jog after a long day and was extremely exhausted. I needed to use the toilet before getting into the shower and so I did. At some point I started dozing off and next thing I knew I woke up with my head against the wall in front of me and a throbbing pain in my skull. Think I looked like a tilted question mark.

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      • RoseIsabella

        OMG! That sounds awful.

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        • Tato

          Well, it hurt, but I actually started laughing. I mean, it was quite funny after all.

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          • RoseIsabella

            At least you have a sense of humor.

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  • drat

    That’s kinda hot

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