Is it normal to doubt your relationship?

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Me and my bf have been dating for a year and a half. I really am in love with him but we are the complete opposites. Every other day or every day we fight over random stuff because we miss understand what each other is doing or talking about.... which creates a fight. Sometimes these fights can get really heated over small things. By the way, we spend almost, literaly every day with each other and the longest that we have been apart was five days. Is it normal to fight that much in a relationship or are we just not ment to be?

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  • grimreeper
    13 years ago | pl

    YES, it's completly OK. If you're really meant for eachother, then you'll work out your diffrences. If you fight over your diffences, don't worry, there are other fish in the sea. ;)

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  • Kayli
    13 years ago | pl

    You need to spend atleast every other day apart. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. You'll miss each other and be excited to see each other thus being less likely to fight. And remember, you have to choose your battles. Are these things really worth fighting over? Sometimes you gotta be the bigger person and just brush it off. You need to sit down and talk to your significant other too. You can't fix problems if you are unaware of them. Good luck!

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  • itzme
    13 years ago | pl

    read ur post and ull find ur answer. u feel u dont have things in common u feel opposites and u feel smothered by this relationship. good luck to u!

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  • juuliewright
    13 years ago | pl

    Fight for what you love. My suggestion though, start talking things out. Don't just jump into yelling.

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  • susana24
    13 years ago | pl

    Do u really want to live like that? Dosent sound fun. Try and find what u have in common and focus on that, when u disagree with him just lisen and try to look at it through his eyes. Then talk things out instead of fighting. If things still don't work leave him and find someone else.!

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  • steezwhiz
    13 years ago | pl

    I think it's normal, my relationship sounds similiar. Maybe you should spend a little more time apart with friends and such.

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