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I am a happily married mother of 3. But for the past few years I have become increasingly attracted to women. Lately I have been waiting until everyone is asleep and then I will go on to webcam sites and talk sexually with other women as i masturbate. Am I becoming a lesbian?
Lesbian, bisexual, bicurious, heteroflexible, who knows? Don't be too hung up on labels. Explore and find out what you do and don't enjoy. Perhaps think through different scenarios and how you might feel about them. If it's something that interests you, float the idea of a threesome with your husband. What is it that you're finding yourself eager to try?
It can mean any number of things. I think you might need to figure out if you've always been interested in women as well (which means you are bisexual), or it is merely a fantasy (for a lot of cases, fantasies are still fine to leave as fantasies and you don't need to act on them if they might ruin your life), or your sex life needs to be reinvigorated (this case, I'd communicate this towards your husband).