Is it normal to do anything for attention?

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For the past three years, any guy that would give me the slightest attention, i would give them everything.. am i the only girl that does that? it just makes me feel good, to know im on someones mind, so i give them more, then their done with me because they got what they wanted.. then id move onto the next guy for more attention..

i haven't done this in a few months because ive been with my boyfriend, but i have noticed lately, i am looking for new guys to give them things, to get attention.. is this normal? what should i do?

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago | pl

    It sounds like you have a serious problem with self esteem and a lack of self respect.

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    • handsomeshooter
      10 years ago

      That's the way I like it, aha.. That's the way aha aha I like it..etc..(humour...OK?) with a 'U' OK??

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      • RoseIsabella
        10 years ago

        You're quite silly. :)

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        • handsomeshooter
          10 years ago

          Do you know how observant you actually are? I am most definitely 'quite silly'. And what a nice term to use...can you make a ryhme using the words silly and willy? (DO NOT include the word small)..x

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          • oliviamohning
            10 years ago

            are you drunk?

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          • RoseIsabella
            10 years ago

            Hahaha... Chilly Willy was an adorable cartoon bird!

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    • Amazingirly001
      10 years ago

      I have done this forever it's a habit . It feel ms like no one likes me and I like this one guy that would NEVER like me and I still will do anything to get him to notice me

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  • alone?
    10 years ago

    stick with one guy seek atention in a diferent way if u must

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  • q1w2e3
    10 years ago

    Remember your age will pass and a time will come when you start to be invisible to the opposite sex, what will you do then?

    Better start building real relationship with your special one that will hopefully last your lifetime.

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    • RoseIsabella
      10 years ago

      Good point!

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    • nikkdikk
      10 years ago

      I've seen some babin' 50 year olds. If this bz is fucking gorgeous and preserves her beauty then she can do what she wants..... But if not, read above. :]

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  • handsignals
    10 years ago

    If I was your boyfriend and I asked you to get on your hands and knees and I used you as a coffee table/foot rest would you do it?

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    • handsomeshooter
      10 years ago

      Kinky...

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  • oliviamohning
    10 years ago

    Everybody is free to have sex with whomever they like, how often, etc. Just as they are all free to NOT have sex.

    But you'll find yourself very unhappy if you use sex and attention to fill a void within yourself. Work on that first, so that you can enjoy sex for what it is - sex - rather than a temporary band-aid for a deeper issue.

    Good luck <3

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  • handsomeshooter
    10 years ago

    Let me get this straight..they move on, and you just stay for ever longing and sex free? Fuck no, you move on to get new attention from a new source.In a serious relationship you will cheat the second you feel you 'deserve' more attention.Girls that are submissive like to be submissive..most guys wouldn't recognise the gift they have found because they are too selfish.However there is a biiiiig difference between submissive and a fukin' doormat.

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  • nikkdikk
    10 years ago

    It's normal but it's annoying as fuck. For fucking peeps all the time is normal, but thinking about it while committed to a man is mean. I see you like various styles of cock and how they stick it, but since you've chosen to stick with one man, give him all your loyalty and enjoy sucking this one man's dick. It pisses me off to hear about women who want more number count of cocks instead of getting cock every night. There are a lot of women like you so don't feel butt hurt, as I'm sure you don't cuz it sounds like you're loose. I wouldn't mind sticking you myself. If I were that man and really thought you wanted to stay with me for all the reasons, I'd be super butt hurt to find out that I get dumped cuz she wants more cocks. So, please be a good gf and suck his dick only and suck others when you break up. Nonetheless, long term relationships has its perks if you're a user. Btw. It'd be an experience to Try to stick with one penis.

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    • RoseIsabella
      10 years ago

      Hahaha!!!

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago

    Stop being a whorebag?

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    • oliviamohning
      10 years ago

      Excuse you, that was really rude.

      Girl has sex, she's a whore.
      Girl doesn't have sex, she's a prude.
      Guy has sex, he gets high fived.
      Guy doesn't have sex, he's a nerd virgin.

      Basically, unless you are a guy having sex, you are screwed.

      You are perpetuating this. Please stop. It's really mean.

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      • Terence_the_viking
        10 years ago

        Is it normal to do anything for attention?

        I was reffering to an attention whore.

        Thank you and good night.

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago

    So, if you had a penis you would even whip it out in front of old men, wouldn't you? It doesn't matter if they have STDs or are rapists. The only thing that matters to you is to have all eyes on you.

    Its not normal. I think you should really see a therapist on this.

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    • oliviamohning
      10 years ago

      That's an overreaction. Lots of girls do it. Lots of GUYS do it. Ever hear guys in a locker room boast about their sex lives? Using sex to boost their ego. She's using sex to boost her self-esteem. It's not particularly healthy, but it's quite common.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    "For the past three years, any guy that would give me the slightest attention, i would give them everything.. am i the only girl that does that?"

    No, thank god.

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  • oops
    10 years ago

    yaa totally normal!

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    • handsomeshooter
      10 years ago

      My you're well spoken good for you. I however am very poorly bred and come from Irish settlers and English whores.

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      • RoseIsabella
        10 years ago

        Are you Australian? :)

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  • megadriver
    10 years ago

    Anything huh?
    I want you to do my laundry, make me some nice spaghetti and give me all your lovin'

    In return i'll give you some attention. We'll even rent a BMW convertible and drive through town slowly (So everyone can see you. You'd like that :D)

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