You should not think like that about your mom dear. After all she is the only person in the whole planet who loves you selfishlessly.
She might sometimes shout or scold on you but it's for your betterment only.
That's really ignorant and damaging to say to someone.
Maybe you grew up with a woman who did indeed love you selflessly like that, someone who wanted the best for you and put thought into preparing you for succeeding in life... Lucky you, I'm happy for you and I hope you appreciate it, but we didn't all get lucky like that.
Some of us had mothers (and I use this term only in the biological sense) who were narcissistic, selfish and malicious, physically and verbally abuse, and emotionally degrading. Sure, this is often the result of themselves having psychological problems and perhaps their own history of abuse and neglect, but that makes zero difference in the amount of hurt and suffering they are now causing another innocent human being, and talking to that person like that (basically denying that what they are experiencing can be real, or even blaming them for it) is so NOT COOL.
OP don't blame yourself, these kinds of feelings are much more common than most people think, and they usually have their root in abuse/neglect, it's not because anything is wrong with you. It sounds like you would benefit from getting away from that place and making your own life. Also get some therapy if you can.
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You should not think like that about your mom dear. After all she is the only person in the whole planet who loves you selfishlessly.
She might sometimes shout or scold on you but it's for your betterment only.
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That's really ignorant and damaging to say to someone.
Maybe you grew up with a woman who did indeed love you selflessly like that, someone who wanted the best for you and put thought into preparing you for succeeding in life... Lucky you, I'm happy for you and I hope you appreciate it, but we didn't all get lucky like that.
Some of us had mothers (and I use this term only in the biological sense) who were narcissistic, selfish and malicious, physically and verbally abuse, and emotionally degrading. Sure, this is often the result of themselves having psychological problems and perhaps their own history of abuse and neglect, but that makes zero difference in the amount of hurt and suffering they are now causing another innocent human being, and talking to that person like that (basically denying that what they are experiencing can be real, or even blaming them for it) is so NOT COOL.
OP don't blame yourself, these kinds of feelings are much more common than most people think, and they usually have their root in abuse/neglect, it's not because anything is wrong with you. It sounds like you would benefit from getting away from that place and making your own life. Also get some therapy if you can.
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Okay I got your point now dear