I'm actually right there with you. Although I know people who are dark and its kind of just become who they are. There's this one girl I know who, lets say Machiavellian, and she's really annoying but I don't see very many people, much less girls, be as forward and weird as her. It's just who she is now though. But I will admit I do dislike people who try so hard to stand out. I get that they just want to be an individual, but it's like they a become a different person in the process. Another friend of mine changed in high school, but she's more confident now, so I'm glad for her.
I remember that watching Disney growing up, one of their classic motto's was "If you don't fit in, stand out." Which I kind of dislike, since it seems like you're only standing out in an effort to fit in. It's just a paradox of social norms.
is it normal to dislike people who try too hard to be "different"
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I'm actually right there with you. Although I know people who are dark and its kind of just become who they are. There's this one girl I know who, lets say Machiavellian, and she's really annoying but I don't see very many people, much less girls, be as forward and weird as her. It's just who she is now though. But I will admit I do dislike people who try so hard to stand out. I get that they just want to be an individual, but it's like they a become a different person in the process. Another friend of mine changed in high school, but she's more confident now, so I'm glad for her.
I remember that watching Disney growing up, one of their classic motto's was "If you don't fit in, stand out." Which I kind of dislike, since it seems like you're only standing out in an effort to fit in. It's just a paradox of social norms.