I once had a girlfriend who smoked pot before and after work, as well as before bed. It was her crutch and definitely an addiction. I didn't have a problem with her attitude or personality while she was high, the only problem I had was it often limited where we could go and when. For instance, she couldn't go to after work functions, because she needed an hour or two to go home, smoke, wind down and then could be made mobile. Eventually I asked her to quit, it was a battle, but she admitted to an addiction and began to ween herself off from it. I became impatient and ended things. I believe she could have done it, but I didn't give her a long enough chance.
I'm currently dating a stoner who basically gets high every night after work multiple times until bed time. My problem with her, is that she is completely "dumb" when high, she doesn't even realize how ditsy and dumb she seems. In the mornings before work we have decent normal human conversations, but in the evenings, it is all 5th grade jive talk with no goal of accomplishing anything. I don't know if I see a future with this one, since she is very against any outside influences changing who she is. I haven't brought it up and don't think it would end well if I did.
If your girl is like the first one, weening down some or all, could be comparable to dating someone who has a few beers a couple of nights per week, which could be a great relationship. If she's like girl number 2, odds are, even a reduction will still give you someone you can't relate to 3-5 nights a week, keeping in mind, odds are she works so you'll only see sober her on occasion. If you can handle that, it might work. Good luck to you!
Is it normal to dislike my girlfriend smoking weed?
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I once had a girlfriend who smoked pot before and after work, as well as before bed. It was her crutch and definitely an addiction. I didn't have a problem with her attitude or personality while she was high, the only problem I had was it often limited where we could go and when. For instance, she couldn't go to after work functions, because she needed an hour or two to go home, smoke, wind down and then could be made mobile. Eventually I asked her to quit, it was a battle, but she admitted to an addiction and began to ween herself off from it. I became impatient and ended things. I believe she could have done it, but I didn't give her a long enough chance.
I'm currently dating a stoner who basically gets high every night after work multiple times until bed time. My problem with her, is that she is completely "dumb" when high, she doesn't even realize how ditsy and dumb she seems. In the mornings before work we have decent normal human conversations, but in the evenings, it is all 5th grade jive talk with no goal of accomplishing anything. I don't know if I see a future with this one, since she is very against any outside influences changing who she is. I haven't brought it up and don't think it would end well if I did.
If your girl is like the first one, weening down some or all, could be comparable to dating someone who has a few beers a couple of nights per week, which could be a great relationship. If she's like girl number 2, odds are, even a reduction will still give you someone you can't relate to 3-5 nights a week, keeping in mind, odds are she works so you'll only see sober her on occasion. If you can handle that, it might work. Good luck to you!