Is it normal to dislike having admirers?

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I am not flirty at all. I know I don't lead men on. I don't hook up. And I don't develop crushes very easily (for me, it's a mixture of really getting to know the guy + an initial attraction). Yet, I continuously find myself in the awkward position of having to reject some poor guy. It makes me feel really guilty and it stresses me out. I become irritated by the situation - which makes me feel all the more guilty (because it's not really their fault that they have a crush on me). I can't dislike someone for liking me, right? Yet, somehow, it feels like they've intruded in my personal space and it really irritates me.

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  • RussianMeggy
    14 years ago

    I feel like that too. It's really hard to reject people.

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  • xino00
    14 years ago

    lol...it's normal.

    dunno what to add to it.
    But you haven't found true love yet.

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  • Neophilia
    12 years ago

    Damn, we are so alike!

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  • lalala26
    13 years ago

    You should be happy that you have men looking at you at all. You could be like wishing that someone would like you so maybe you should be a little less cocky.

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  • tmk1422
    13 years ago

    Take it as a compliment.

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  • StrangeDuckDude
    14 years ago

    I've always been a rather repulsive, creepy guy (females have told me so since I was 12) so I understand why women have rejected me in the past. I've stayed away from women for the last 10 years, and I feel it's the right thing for me to do. So, keep rejecting them, girl! Think of yourself as a gene pool chlorinator. You're one of Darwin's agents, helping to fly-swat the confidence of creeps, losers, and inferior males and causing as many of them as possible, to resign themselves to celibacy. Maybe some of them will end up shooting themselves, even.

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