If you plan on a twenty year relationship it might get complicated at some point. If you want to have children he might not have the energy for them. Why are you dating him? Love? I couldn't speak out against love.
Just if you were dating him for the money you'd be wasting some great years.
All relationships might get complicated. And more and more young people are opting not to have kids according to US census data. I don't plan to have kids, and it's not just because I'm in school still. Maybe I'd be the problem for an older guy who's still able/wants to have kids.
And what about the protective interests of the older person? The problem with a young girl dating an older man for money is ... the young girl "wasting some great years?" I'd say the problem with that scenario is one person using another person--regardless who's using who. If a 20-something year old girl dates a 20-something year old guy for money, she's a leech. Same if the guy's in his 60s and doesn't explicitly consent to the arrangement.
IIN to date a man old enough to be your dad?
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If you plan on a twenty year relationship it might get complicated at some point. If you want to have children he might not have the energy for them. Why are you dating him? Love? I couldn't speak out against love.
Just if you were dating him for the money you'd be wasting some great years.
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All relationships might get complicated. And more and more young people are opting not to have kids according to US census data. I don't plan to have kids, and it's not just because I'm in school still. Maybe I'd be the problem for an older guy who's still able/wants to have kids.
And what about the protective interests of the older person? The problem with a young girl dating an older man for money is ... the young girl "wasting some great years?" I'd say the problem with that scenario is one person using another person--regardless who's using who. If a 20-something year old girl dates a 20-something year old guy for money, she's a leech. Same if the guy's in his 60s and doesn't explicitly consent to the arrangement.
Not meaning to argue...