In the United States that would be an inappropriate age gap, I know ya'll are in Germany, and all that yada yada yada, but I couldn't help but to make mention of the age difference. Although it's legal in your country she's still too young, because she's she's obviously too immature.
OKay, yes she lied to you which a shitty, and hella flaky thing to, but you lied to her as well. So technically ya'll are both liars which is not a good thing, not a good thing at all.
If you were my son or nephew I would highly advice you to forget about this girl, because she's very immature and sounds kinda crazy. To be completely honest my first instinct is to run when I find out, or even suspect someone is stalking me online or in real life. Whether or not she has this stupid crush on you is immaterial when she's kinda crazy.
Sorry, if my response is not what you were looking to hear. Just forget about this stupid child, and move on with your life. In the future do not lie about yourself to chicks, because if you hold yourself to a higher standard you will be more likely to hold others to a higher moral standard as well. Besides if you lie about yourself you'll be much more likely to forgive and forget when someone else lies to you, which isn't something you want to do. Don't tell lies, or associate with liars.
Also, your English is better than most other non native English speakers as well as many native speakers. Hang in there dude.
Oh shit, I think I may have inadvertently misread your post. I thought it said that you were 21, but told her you were 18. My apologies. I've been über tired as I haven't slept more than four hours in the past 24 hours.
So then if you've completely honest with this girl from the very beginning, and she lied about her age from the start then it's better, because then the answer is even more crystal clear. She's an immature, young lady of poor character who is not worthy of your time, and emotions. A big part of life is taking that leap of faith in being straightforward and honest, but she's proven herself to be less than honest which is bad enough, but the fact that she's stalking you only makes things worse. She's probably pretty crazy. I wish I had a dollar for everytime some kid said he or she had this big crush, or was in love. True love is much more than that butterflies feeling that we all get when we see someone we're very attracted to despite what your little stalker says about her feelings. Surely you can meet someone better than this girl.
I'm sorry for the mix up, about your age. I hope you can find someone intelligent with whom you have real compatibility and shared interests as well as a physical attraction.
Ive read my lines like 20 times to find my error. But i couldve written it better , i understand you misreading it but wouldnt it be pretty crazy to lie and make me younger haha the way you read it i sound like a predator hahahah. Thanks for the honest opinion i called her and told her that this isnt a good idea since i dont like to be asshole i wanted to let her down easy without pain. She started crying and said that she is really sorry for lying and that i should give her a second chance(i hate myself). So yeah you get the idea.
Your original post, and your English are fine. It was just a mistake on my part. I thought you were 21 for some reason, maybe because it was late when I read it, and I was sleep deprived.
You did the right thing in breaking it off with this girl. I think it's normal that you felt bad, because she cried, but the truth is that you have done nothing wrong and have no reason to feel bad or hate yourself. I'm convinced that you're a good guy.
I hope you meet a really nice girl who us worthy of your affections.
I understood like 4 lines in that whole text and im really not bad at normal english but thia is some next level harvard stuff. Could you conclude what you wrote in simple english for me please ?
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In the United States that would be an inappropriate age gap, I know ya'll are in Germany, and all that yada yada yada, but I couldn't help but to make mention of the age difference. Although it's legal in your country she's still too young, because she's she's obviously too immature.
OKay, yes she lied to you which a shitty, and hella flaky thing to, but you lied to her as well. So technically ya'll are both liars which is not a good thing, not a good thing at all.
If you were my son or nephew I would highly advice you to forget about this girl, because she's very immature and sounds kinda crazy. To be completely honest my first instinct is to run when I find out, or even suspect someone is stalking me online or in real life. Whether or not she has this stupid crush on you is immaterial when she's kinda crazy.
Sorry, if my response is not what you were looking to hear. Just forget about this stupid child, and move on with your life. In the future do not lie about yourself to chicks, because if you hold yourself to a higher standard you will be more likely to hold others to a higher moral standard as well. Besides if you lie about yourself you'll be much more likely to forgive and forget when someone else lies to you, which isn't something you want to do. Don't tell lies, or associate with liars.
Also, your English is better than most other non native English speakers as well as many native speakers. Hang in there dude.
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Thats exactly the response ive been looking for because i wanted other opinions with a reason. And thanks for that but, where did i lie ?
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Oh shit, I think I may have inadvertently misread your post. I thought it said that you were 21, but told her you were 18. My apologies. I've been über tired as I haven't slept more than four hours in the past 24 hours.
So then if you've completely honest with this girl from the very beginning, and she lied about her age from the start then it's better, because then the answer is even more crystal clear. She's an immature, young lady of poor character who is not worthy of your time, and emotions. A big part of life is taking that leap of faith in being straightforward and honest, but she's proven herself to be less than honest which is bad enough, but the fact that she's stalking you only makes things worse. She's probably pretty crazy. I wish I had a dollar for everytime some kid said he or she had this big crush, or was in love. True love is much more than that butterflies feeling that we all get when we see someone we're very attracted to despite what your little stalker says about her feelings. Surely you can meet someone better than this girl.
I'm sorry for the mix up, about your age. I hope you can find someone intelligent with whom you have real compatibility and shared interests as well as a physical attraction.
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Ive read my lines like 20 times to find my error. But i couldve written it better , i understand you misreading it but wouldnt it be pretty crazy to lie and make me younger haha the way you read it i sound like a predator hahahah. Thanks for the honest opinion i called her and told her that this isnt a good idea since i dont like to be asshole i wanted to let her down easy without pain. She started crying and said that she is really sorry for lying and that i should give her a second chance(i hate myself). So yeah you get the idea.
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Your original post, and your English are fine. It was just a mistake on my part. I thought you were 21 for some reason, maybe because it was late when I read it, and I was sleep deprived.
You did the right thing in breaking it off with this girl. I think it's normal that you felt bad, because she cried, but the truth is that you have done nothing wrong and have no reason to feel bad or hate yourself. I'm convinced that you're a good guy.
I hope you meet a really nice girl who us worthy of your affections.
I understood like 4 lines in that whole text and im really not bad at normal english but thia is some next level harvard stuff. Could you conclude what you wrote in simple english for me please ?