Is it normal to cyber but...

I like to sit up at night and talk to guys about sex and what I wanna do to them and how I would like to meet them and do these things to them. But the thing is I don't think I would ever act on this. I have had people offer to come to "L" town and see me and buy a hotel room and buy me things like earings and they wanna fuck and I'm all like "yeah kool" but when it comes time I make excuses and back out. I'm not a whore because I don't ever have sex with them. The funny thing is ill tell the guys what I'm doing to myself and what I wanna do to them, but I never touch myself while doing this. IIN?