Is it normal to cry when you get a text you didnt want?
Last night I got a text and I was tired and wanted to go to sleep. when I opened it it said " Can I ask you something?" and I cried because I wanted to say NO so bad but I couldnt...
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Last night I got a text and I was tired and wanted to go to sleep. when I opened it it said " Can I ask you something?" and I cried because I wanted to say NO so bad but I couldnt...
It's normal to be over emotional when tired.
It's not normal to feel you have no choice but to respond to a stupid text asking what was probably an insignificant question. If it was important, it didn't need to be preceded with "can I ask..."
I had a client at one point who would text or call me between midnight and 4am asking me to come in to work at 5am. As a result, I now have the policy of any work texts/calls after 11pm are not answered. It's easy.
How are they to know if you're asleep or not? And no message necessarily has to be answered instantaneously. I sometimes go days without responding to friends or family. If it's really important, they'll let me know. If it's not, so what, let it go.