Is it normal to crush on someone for two years?

I've had a crush on this kid for two years; I haven't seen him in just about as long.

I suppose it's all become a sort of safe fantasy for me or this obsession that I just like to picture to escape from reality. I've got all these little stories planned out, like how I'll see him again and junk like that.

What do you think, friends, INN?

Is It Normal?
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  • Yes, you should invite him to the INN. Roofie his drink obviously and let romance unfold.

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  • I've been there before. I liked this one guy for three years straight. I kid you not.

    It just takes me a really long time to get over somebody. Once I start liking someone, I take that stuff very seriously. I think that if I didn't have a reason, and if he didn't give me a reason to make myself stop liking him, I would've loved that guy forever.

    Its kinda pathetic to other people, but I've been that way for as long as I can remember. And when I like someone its always just about that person and nobody else. I never stalk them, but I was thinking about talking with a therapist once to see if it were actually normal. Maybe we should get checked out just in case?

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  • im a boy,and i still think about my first love,my 2nd,my 3rd,etc.the feelings can still be really strong,and i guess deep down inside i will always care deeply about all of them.you could never love some1 so much that you couldnt love some1 else,it sucks,but its true

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  • i'm completely with you, some of us just latch on a little tighter than others :) once someone better comes along though, i'm confident that these residual feelings will go out the window.

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  • I'm the same way. It takes me a long time to fully get over someone.

    Do you know him at all? If you have Facebook, you should search for him there.

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  • y don't u tell him

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