yeah unfortunately it is normal. He probably just doesn't know how to act. I was actually in his situation slightly tweaked. I'm a girl and this guy really liked me but i was not attracted to him AT ALL. and he made it really public and got everybody involved which got on my nerves but what irritated me the most was how he seemed to want me to take responsibility for his feelings without ever considering how i felt or that i might be going through something too. I was unsure of myself at the time and didn't know what to do. I didn't like him and didn't want to get involved but i liked the feeling of being liked by someone and the attention of others who got involved was new to me. At the end of the year he even asked me "why don't you talk to me?" but really it was a deep conversation that involved things that were hard to admit to even myself. In the end i just let one of my friends pull me away.
I don't know if this will help or not but i hope it does somehow. and from my side i'd like to apologize to the guy for letting things play out the way they did. so in the end i don't have any advice just that maybe he's just going through some difficult things himself and doesn't know what the hell to do with himself let alone another person who likes him.
Is it normal to crush on my straight friend?
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yeah unfortunately it is normal. He probably just doesn't know how to act. I was actually in his situation slightly tweaked. I'm a girl and this guy really liked me but i was not attracted to him AT ALL. and he made it really public and got everybody involved which got on my nerves but what irritated me the most was how he seemed to want me to take responsibility for his feelings without ever considering how i felt or that i might be going through something too. I was unsure of myself at the time and didn't know what to do. I didn't like him and didn't want to get involved but i liked the feeling of being liked by someone and the attention of others who got involved was new to me. At the end of the year he even asked me "why don't you talk to me?" but really it was a deep conversation that involved things that were hard to admit to even myself. In the end i just let one of my friends pull me away.
I don't know if this will help or not but i hope it does somehow. and from my side i'd like to apologize to the guy for letting things play out the way they did. so in the end i don't have any advice just that maybe he's just going through some difficult things himself and doesn't know what the hell to do with himself let alone another person who likes him.