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Ok, I have a problem. I'm bi, one of the few where i live. I'm also a dude. So, there's a guy that knows I'm bi. He also knows i have a huge crush on him. He's really freaked out about it and it makes me feel uncomfortable around him. Is this normal?
I hate people who are so narrow-minded about homosexuality.
There's absolutely nothing wrong with being gay/bi. Infact it's been found to be NATURAL.
I'll explain:
A mother's womb sees the male feutus[sp?] as a foreign object, and therefore tries to feminise it.
The more male children a woman has, the more adept at doing this the body becomes.
Basically, the more boys a woman has, the more chance of that boy becoming gay/bi. But this doesn't mean to say that a woman's first boy will definately not be gay.
Also, in answer to your question, it's normal. Whenever somebody freaks out about me, I feel uncomfortable near them
Nice to see I'm not the only one so open about their sexuality :)
Romans 1:18-32
Nature shows it plainly that homosexuality is not designed. Statistics show it plainly that homosexuality is not healthy. Homosexuals show it plainly that it is not beneficial to society.
Wisdom shows us what is plain, the real problem is people want to do what they want to do, even when it is wrong. It's been going on since the beginning of time.
The last verse here says that "they know the judgement of God." Everyone has been given a basic scale in the heart to measure right and wrong. Even if we were to "omit" homosexuality out of the equation, everyone would still be caught by their own words and found guilty of doing wrong. Doing good deeds do not erase the wrongs we have done, they only cover them up. The problem here is, heaven is heaven because everyone there is sin-free. The only hope for us all is to have our sins completely forgiven rather than covered up. And Jesus is the only One who can do this.
yeah unfortunately it is normal. He probably just doesn't know how to act. I was actually in his situation slightly tweaked. I'm a girl and this guy really liked me but i was not attracted to him AT ALL. and he made it really public and got everybody involved which got on my nerves but what irritated me the most was how he seemed to want me to take responsibility for his feelings without ever considering how i felt or that i might be going through something too. I was unsure of myself at the time and didn't know what to do. I didn't like him and didn't want to get involved but i liked the feeling of being liked by someone and the attention of others who got involved was new to me. At the end of the year he even asked me "why don't you talk to me?" but really it was a deep conversation that involved things that were hard to admit to even myself. In the end i just let one of my friends pull me away.
I don't know if this will help or not but i hope it does somehow. and from my side i'd like to apologize to the guy for letting things play out the way they did. so in the end i don't have any advice just that maybe he's just going through some difficult things himself and doesn't know what the hell to do with himself let alone another person who likes him.
Happens with straight people too. Whenever there are one-sided feelings it's going to be awkward.