If she's cheating, dump her but if she isn't and her personality is great and it's just the lack of direction, so what if it takes a year or two? A lot of people I know took several years off and I envy them as I've never had time off before in my entire life but most people do that now, it's pretty common and I think it's healthy but if she's just immature in general and you feel she's not mature enough and can't see her acting like an adult, you could give her a nudge or two and see how she is.
IIN to consider dumping my GF for these reasons
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If she's cheating, dump her but if she isn't and her personality is great and it's just the lack of direction, so what if it takes a year or two? A lot of people I know took several years off and I envy them as I've never had time off before in my entire life but most people do that now, it's pretty common and I think it's healthy but if she's just immature in general and you feel she's not mature enough and can't see her acting like an adult, you could give her a nudge or two and see how she is.