Why does everybody seem to think that if you cheat on someone then you don't love them? Believe it or not, mistakes can be made, and a lot of people don't realise what they've got until it is gone. Some people just cheat without thinking properly, and, while a little thoughtless, it DOES NOT make them bad people.
OP, if you want to keep the relationship together you've got to admit to her what you've done; do it right and she'll forgive you.
As a side note, my cynicism radar would suggest that if we all knew that you were a girl at the start, a lot of people would have been more understanding as opposed to attacking you.
Usually I can look at my old comments and they still make sense to me, but this one I can only say I agree with about a third of a most (the first paragraph, to be exact), although even that I only agree with parts of.
The second and last paragraphs do not flatter me as a person, and if someone else wrote them I would probably think they were an arsehole :P
Since you don't. If you truly love someone you live for them. You do not go out of your way to cheat on them and you actually give a shit about how they are feeling. I could never cheat on one of my partners since I would be having that person at the back of my mind. That is not love. At least its not romantic love. I suppose one could love someone as a friend but not partner when you cheat but you do not have a real romantic attachment with them.
Is it normal to cheat on someone you love very much?
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Why does everybody seem to think that if you cheat on someone then you don't love them? Believe it or not, mistakes can be made, and a lot of people don't realise what they've got until it is gone. Some people just cheat without thinking properly, and, while a little thoughtless, it DOES NOT make them bad people.
OP, if you want to keep the relationship together you've got to admit to her what you've done; do it right and she'll forgive you.
As a side note, my cynicism radar would suggest that if we all knew that you were a girl at the start, a lot of people would have been more understanding as opposed to attacking you.
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Two years later: I'm not proud of this comment.
Usually I can look at my old comments and they still make sense to me, but this one I can only say I agree with about a third of a most (the first paragraph, to be exact), although even that I only agree with parts of.
The second and last paragraphs do not flatter me as a person, and if someone else wrote them I would probably think they were an arsehole :P
Since you don't. If you truly love someone you live for them. You do not go out of your way to cheat on them and you actually give a shit about how they are feeling. I could never cheat on one of my partners since I would be having that person at the back of my mind. That is not love. At least its not romantic love. I suppose one could love someone as a friend but not partner when you cheat but you do not have a real romantic attachment with them.