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Im married f from nc, I like to get on chat with older men. My husband does not know. Is it like cheating to chat with these men and flirt with them? I really like it and the older guy are much nicer then guys my own age.
It's not normal for someone in a happy marriage to flirt with anyone of any age online. It IS normal for someone who's in an unhappy marriage to do it. Maybe it helps you tolerate your situation -- I don't know. But even if it makes you feel good, it's not really fair to the old guys if you're leading them on in some way. But overall, if I were you, I'd think hard about why you're married to someone who's not very nice to you.
They say the best way to gauge whether or not you are cheating is if you are hiding it from your partner.
If you haven't told your husband that you're doing this, and the reason you haven't told him is "if he found out he would be upset", then yes you are absolutely cheating.
Cheating is actually a very broad term because it depends on the relationship and the boundaries you set for eachother. Some people wouldn't see a kiss as cheating, others would. Some relationships are also open to their partner having sex with someone else. Personaly for me, if my boyfriend was chatting and flirting with other girls, I would find this an offence in the relationship. I know he would feel the same way. I can only assume your husband doesn't know about this, and you don't want to tell him cause he'd obviously be upset. I think you should stop what you're doing..