This is something only you and your wife can decide. If you both want kids then do it if not, then give it a couple more years time to make certain it's not just a phase of hers or yours. If you remain on the stance that you don't want kids after those 2 years then you shouldn't give up your desires and personal happiness just to please someone else (Your wife, in-laws, or whoever else would want you to have kids). Only become a parent if both people are in agreement. Kids are a lifetime committment, not 18-21 years so please think it through carefully.
Is it normal to change your mind about having a family after marriage?
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This is something only you and your wife can decide. If you both want kids then do it if not, then give it a couple more years time to make certain it's not just a phase of hers or yours. If you remain on the stance that you don't want kids after those 2 years then you shouldn't give up your desires and personal happiness just to please someone else (Your wife, in-laws, or whoever else would want you to have kids). Only become a parent if both people are in agreement. Kids are a lifetime committment, not 18-21 years so please think it through carefully.
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Thank you for your advice. I appreciate it.