Is it normal to build suspense?

Well i'm in a relationship. I tend to keep it interesting by building suspense and a little worry. like I just ignore her and don't responded for a few hours and just completely offline for a few hours to make her "Worry". For me i think this is just more of a "Does she care" factor.

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36% Normal
Based on 42 votes (15 yes)
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Comments ( 15 )
  • Cedric_Diggory

    It's not normal to play games like an immature little bitch

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    • Webmaster564

      i'm sorry i should've gave the whole story. she does this to me to we've been dating for about 4 years now. couldnt remember what email i used to sin up with. im currently 30 she is 27.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Not cool, dude.

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    • WebMaster675

      @: RoseIsaBella i'm sorry i should've gave the whole story. she does this to me to we've been dating for about 4 years now. couldnt remember what email i used to sign up with. im currently 30 she is 27.

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    • Webmaster564

      i'm sorry i should've gave the whole story. she does this to me to we've been dating for about 4 years now. couldnt remember what email i used to sin up with. im currently 30 she is 27.

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      • RoseIsabella

        If she did this to you to start with then why did you stay with her? Why would you you stay with someone who plays mind games with you, and then waste your time playing mind games on her instead of just just leaving? It seems like such a waste of time, energy and emotion for both of ya'll.

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  • Ellenna

    That's very manipulative and I hope she wakes up to your stupid games and dumps you. You obviously don't really love her or you wouldn't be ignoring and deliberately worrying her.

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    • RoseIsabella

      He's probably a codependent guy with self esteem issues.

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      • Ellenna

        More likely just an ordinary everyday arsehole

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        • WebMaster675

          @: Ellenna i'm sorry i should've gave the whole story. she does this to me to we've been dating for about 4 years now. couldnt remember what email i used to sign up with. im currently 30 she is 27.

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          • noodle76

            That sounds like a bullshit excuse because you dont want people to not like you.

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          • Ellenna

            So you're both playing games? Have fun but it sounds very childish to me

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  • Allergictofun

    It's definitely normal to want that validation that they care, but most women do not like playing that game. I can't tell you how many times I've heard my female friends worry and agonize over this exact thing. And I've definitely seen possible relationships end before they've even started due to things like this.

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  • noodle76

    Do you even realise how horrible that could be on a girl?
    Forget about the whole "does she care" shit, if you did that to me id be crying myself to sleep wondering why i wasnt good enough.
    Grow up.

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  • TheAnarkyOfLife

    Very manipulative and emotionally straining towards your partner, no matter what "the full story" is. It still isn't normal.

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