Is it normal to breakdown

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i have never had anyone understand my break downs but my current bf who is dieing..... its the best part of my relationship i am weird about controlling a situation im not a controle freak but i hate when i dont know what the possible out comes for a situation are i like to have a very presise plan for the outcomes of a situation its hard to explain and i havent been able to really get across what i mean not even here but he understands it ill get stressed out and cry one minute and be a bitch the next i cant help it but he sits me down and says it will all be fine step by step explains what we will do no matter what happens... i usualy do it for myself but sometimes i get to stressed to use it to calm myself... first of all is this normal and secound if you know what im talking about how do i explain this

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    Hes dying and ur worried about THAT? Selfish much?

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  • mtnw
    13 years ago | pl

    your situation is extreme. probably alot of this is the stress of it all. stay with seeing your therapist. this would be a hard situation for anyone to the through.

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  • Mel
    13 years ago | pl

    I would never want to be in your situation, & Im so sorry you have to deal with that. Its good your talking to someone. Your therapist will be able to tell if you have a mental disorder or if its just emotional. People deal with death all very differently. Just make sure to take care of yourself, I can only imagine your boyfriend would want you to be happy & healthy.

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  • blondblueandwhite
    13 years ago | pl

    my biological mom was bi-polar manic depresive and actually i have seen a councelour about how im feeling about all this because mostly i feel numb im sad and its sucks and the littlest things will set me of crying that he is going to die but the one time i let go i almost crashed my car i was crying so hard and couldnt talk for a day because i was screaming while crying i try not to think about it because im the one who is taking care of him and it doesnt help him if i break down into a mess.... the therapist already told me that its a copeing mechanism and i will go through those emotions when he dies and im able to let go and feel all those emotions

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  • Mel
    13 years ago | pl

    No, it is not normal. You need to see a Doctor. You could be Bi-polar or have a hormone imbalance. Or...a ton of other things. The fact that you're worried about reconnecting with someone else, and not completely grief stricken about the loss of your boyfriend doesn't sound healthy either. I suggest you see a psychologist, fast.

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  • Lockets
    13 years ago | pl

    Dreadful grammar and spelling but I am sorry to hear that your boyfriend is dying.

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  • Ratso
    13 years ago | pl

    Seriously
    How about "my bfs dying and i'm gonna miss him and idk if i can ever get ovr him"
    Thats what u should be wotried about hun
    Not that u wont conect with any1 else

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    • blondblueandwhite
      13 years ago | pl

      dont judge me, you have no idea what i feel or what im going through he has been sick for over half a year... im not saying im going to move on like tomorrow, but it will happen im living still and still have a life and there isnt anything wrong with that, of course i will miss him but i have been missing the person i fell in love with for over half a year because he has brain cancer and it has affected his personality.... i just wanted to know if the freaking out like i do is normal FUCK

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago | pl

    He is dying? That's the best part of your relationship? Try using punctuation.

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    • blondblueandwhite
      13 years ago | pl

      yes he is dieing and i am worried about being able to connect w/ someone else. mostly because i have such a hard time even explaining what is even going on. is it normal to freak out like this...

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