Is it normal to break up with me after she tels me she loves me?

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My ex-girlfriend (20 years) she told me last week she loves me, last day she wants to sleep at my place and today a text message that she wants to talk with me over a coffee..

We haven't got to drink the coffee as she told me our relationship is not working anymore and we need to break up. It was our 3 months together.

Now tell me, is it normal because I cannot get at all the woman mind!

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Based on 51 votes (19 yes)
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  • mtnw
    14 years ago

    her mixed messages must be maddening. you are probably better off without her.

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  • hermione
    12 years ago

    sounds like she is confused or maybe you made her feel insecure sometimes us women forget men cant read our minds

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  • screaminasian
    14 years ago

    ya if it's bothering you tell her. she's maybe mixed up and also wants to have a full-on talk with you

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    • replicator
      14 years ago

      Now she wants to talk..and sent me a text that she thinks it was a mistake. Now I have got over her and not sure if I want her back. Maybe I'll still talk with her.

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      • jakeomaniac
        12 years ago

        Man, I hate to take something from a video game, but it really fits this situation.

        Think of it this way: either you love her, and you want to be with her; or you don't, and you've already made up your mind.

        Personally, I would recommend sitting her down, and having a face-to-face talk with her. Texting or video chatting does absolutely zero in this situation. You need to let her know how you feel, and a text message doesn't convey feeling like a face-to-face does.

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  • ComboBreaker
    14 years ago

    Did you tell her you loved her back? And not just sound like you were humoring her? Maby you was missing something, forgeting something? Or maby she just diddnt think you suited each other. Either way you should probly talk to her about it.

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