I think it's petty and sad using the excuse of not being able to give your own kids the opportunity of having both parents or nice trips as grounds for not wanting to go somewhere with he kid. As for the other part I do understand, you've worked your whole life to get your kids to college and now this. Honestly, the only thing to do is to talk sincerely with your boyfriend and explain you situation. I mean, you say you have tried to avoid the kid, he might have changed his odious ways. And even if he hasn't, if his father cares for you he will try and make it work by talking with his son. It sucks to have a kid sprung upon you like that but if the boyfriend is worth it then you might have to make it work.
Is it normal to break up now that he will have full custody?
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I think it's petty and sad using the excuse of not being able to give your own kids the opportunity of having both parents or nice trips as grounds for not wanting to go somewhere with he kid. As for the other part I do understand, you've worked your whole life to get your kids to college and now this. Honestly, the only thing to do is to talk sincerely with your boyfriend and explain you situation. I mean, you say you have tried to avoid the kid, he might have changed his odious ways. And even if he hasn't, if his father cares for you he will try and make it work by talking with his son. It sucks to have a kid sprung upon you like that but if the boyfriend is worth it then you might have to make it work.