I fully understand and respect your position on this.
In my view it is most definitely wrong to stay with this man and his kid. My number one concern (other than the guilty feeling about your own kids missing out, I agree) is the fact that kids pick up on things really easily.
ie Please don't let this kid have a horrible 'step mother' life (not saying you're horrible, I actually agree with you!) But the kid WILL suffer, sorry to say.
Leave.
Edit: just one opinion, you weigh it up when you hear all of them I suppose.
Is it normal to break up now that he will have full custody?
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I fully understand and respect your position on this.
In my view it is most definitely wrong to stay with this man and his kid. My number one concern (other than the guilty feeling about your own kids missing out, I agree) is the fact that kids pick up on things really easily.
ie Please don't let this kid have a horrible 'step mother' life (not saying you're horrible, I actually agree with you!) But the kid WILL suffer, sorry to say.
Leave.
Edit: just one opinion, you weigh it up when you hear all of them I suppose.